For the girls, would YOU start a relationship with someone who left their current lover to be with you?

Question

This is just a hypothetical question. Let's say, someone sleeps with someone who is in a relationship and falls in love with her. Wouldn't there always be trust issues in the new relationship if she cheated with you to begin with, (before ending her current relationship), and wouldn't she cheat on you, in the future, if the opportunity arose? Are you one who believes things always "end as they began"? In this "new relationship", after she has broken up with her lover, would you really consider yourself SO SPECIAL that she would never cheat on YOU?? I don't think I would begin any relationship with anyone who has ever cheated on a current or former lover. Well, I KNOW I wouldn't. What are your thoughts regarding this?

I'm VERY interested to hear any and all honest answers.

Answer 1

If someone will cheat with you they will cheat on you.

Answer 2

i never thought about it like that.. but i cant tell you that i saw the hottest thing alive and she had a thing for me. that part was a secret. but one day we were in front of her girl, and it just happened ( we kissed).... butt ehh 3 months later things fell apart. we were at a party and this ugly b**** dared my girl to kiss her and my girl cant let down a dare (h**e). so it happened *tear* then the next day she was hold me and i just looked at her and she knew i knew. she said danielle come on babe you know i love you. long story short she stabbed my heart to millions of pieces then scattered them across the world:( that girl wasnt even half decent ehhh gross

Answer 3

NO.....if they bolted on someone....they will bolt on you.

Stay away

Answer 4

no way...i dislike and have no respect for cheaters. plus, if they'll leave someone for you, who are they leaving you for?

Answer 5

duh it means he loves u more so u deserve him

Answer 6

I agree with you - anything a person will do FOR you, they will do TO you.  So if he cheated on/broke up with his old girlfriend for me, then he will probably cheat on/break up with me for someone else.

Answer 7

I know that I wouldn't.  But thats because I know what it is like to be cheated on.

You're absolutely right, the person has PROVEN that they are willing to cheat on someone they have made a commitment to, what would keep them from doing the same to you, when things get difficult?

If you don't end things first, before moving on, you'll always have that shadow of the former relationship haunting you.  It colors everything, and affects things years down the road.

Answer 8

I would not be able to trust that person fully. If they were in a serious committed relationship, and left the other person for me, it would be ignorant and naiive of me to disregard the possibility of it happening again.

New and exciting feeling of the new relationship will wear off eventually, and if a person was able to break another heart for me, then they will always be able to find someone new and more exciting than me eventually as well.

Answer 9

I guess we'll never know....the situation varies with the situation. My gf left her ex for me after 14 yrs of a tired relationship. She's put up with more b.s. from me than ony one woman ever would....she's a saint. She must love me as she sees the extreme good in me. We still struggle but our love seems to hold strong