For those 26 yrs old and younger?

Question

for those wiling to take time and answer. as a teen ager what were some or your insecurities about yourself , your future (career golas, family/personal goals) and how did you confront and reassure yourself .

Answer 1

Well, as far as my insecurities go, I think the closest thing I really one is I don't being lied to, and I don't trust what most people say, but I also realize that in a way it is in human nature for people to try to act like something they aren't if they want to impress someone, or a group of someones. But it still bothers me.  Other than that I don't think I really have any insecurities, unless I keep them hidden from even myself, or else I shoved them into the back of my mind as a subconscious self defense mechanism so I can avoid revealing them in this answer. I guess I don't even trust myself sometimes, does that count? But honestly, I don't see any real insecurities about myself, I don't care what people think of me, I dress the way I want to, not the way I think I'll fit in best, I act the way I want, even if it pisses off those around me. I don't see any need to act like a rich kid to fit in with the popular croud, and be surrounded by people who only like me because they think I have money, nor do I see the point in acting like a poor kid who lives in the ghetto, and does drive bys for a passtime. Maybe I have an insecurity about having insecurities, I do seem to be claiming that I don't  have any a lot. Hm. Who knows really? If I can't even admit my own insecurities to myself (assuming that I have any that is) then how can I be sure what they are?

Goals for my future... Well, I hope to better the world through music, I'm a lyricist, and a vocalist in a rock band. BUT, I'm not expecting  free ride, and have a back up plan in case that idea crashes and burns. I plan on majoring in psychology and  possibly sociology. I'm going to be a junior in high school next year, and am taking AP Psych as a starting point on that path.

I guess this isn't a very good answer, so I'll list some possible teenage insecurities...

Not fitting in, that seems to be a big one amongst high school students. Everywhere I look at my school, there are what I call "fakes" who act like someone they aren't just to fit in. For example, I know this girl who listens to Korn, Mudvayne, Def Leppard, etc. at home, but when she gets to school, she can't stop talking about Kelly Clarkson and Ashlee Simpson.  That doesn't sit well with me.

People knowing about their family situation. At this age, not many kids feel like they have "cool" parents. It's a teenager thing.

People knowing too much about their personal lives. Such as people knowing that they read Manga and watch anime, or that they still collect pokemon cards, hobbies etc.

That's really all I've got.

Answer 2

my biggest insecruity has and still is what to do with my life right now. I dont have a carrer choice in mind, and I have become very discouraged seeing all my friends go get some degree and graduate college but end up doing some job that had nothing to do with their degrees. still alittle lost, but havent given up hope. just have to keep my eyes open and try differnt things untill something sparks my interest i suppose.

Answer 3

my discomforts were my appearance ( i know shallow) also my future i was scared of what might come but i just told myself that it will all be fine there are worse things that could happen to me besides being unemployed and it all worked out :)

Answer 4

Alright, I'm 15 years old. I just recently finished my freshman year of high school. I think a lot of my insecurities were stemmed from my behavioral disorders. I have been diagnosed with ADHD, Bipolar Disorder, Depression, and Panic Disorder. Beside from that, I went through the whole "Oh, my homework isn't important I'll do it later." And since then, I have been a mess. I'm worried about being able to get into college, or being able to get a job.  And while these things are still in my mind, I know that I'll be fine. I'll either be fine, or find a way to make it better. That's what I've done my whole life. Having friends and family who are supportive helped me tremendously, as well as psychological therapy. Hope this helps.

Answer 5

apperence, weather im going graduate or end up marrying my bf