For those married 20 years plus, what is your "secret"?

Question

For those married 20 years plus, what is your "secret"?

Answer 1

Your both constantly changing, be sure not to drift apart.

&

a lotta giving

Answer 2

i have a bf on the side that i have s*x with! He keeps things going for me thats my secret!

Answer 3

Beer.

Answer 4

- Never forget your wife/husband is ALSO your best friend.

- Don't sweat the little stuff.

- Everyone thinks "fighting is normal." It's not normal. Fighting is something that comes out of a power struggle: who's the boss, who's not, who's right, who's wrong. If you understand these things DO NOT MATTER, that what is important that you remain friends and lovers, you will never fight. We've never had a real fight; we disagree often, but never fight.

- Stay in love, never forget to show you care. Applies to BOTH woman and men.

- My personal secret to success, I always get the last word around my house:

"Yes dear."

The moral is, be willing to give up the things your childish ego wants you to hang on to in the interest of nurturing something far more important.

Answer 5

Communication.  Whether it's about s*x, finances, or family.  If you don't talk then you'll slowly drift apart and just merely "exsist" together, then you let passion and everything with it fade also :)