For those of you who have a spouce in school read my question below please!

Question

If you have a spouce in school that is having a hard time wouldnt you research the questions that he has in order to help him. but not give the answers. My husband has had a learning problem and i am trying to help him but people are saying that i shouldnt be on here doing this, I am only trying to get suggestions so i could help him and not use the answers that are given.

Answer 1

No I would suggest to him that he get a tutor at the school or ask the teacher for additional help. You don't know for sure that you are giving him the correct answers/direction. Tutors at the school will have been through the classes and will be very good resources.  

Answer 2

I don't have a spouse in school, but I have a sister in law, who, as an adult went back to school for nursing (successfully, by the way) and has learning disabilities.  She was able to get help for her learning disabilities through the school and has helped her greatly.  I admit, my mother in law and I helped, but the only thing that we did was read her books aloud to record them on tape for her (she learns better HEARING than seeing).  We also helped quiz her for her tests, but that was based on questions she created for her quizzes.  What we did was based on suggestions from the aide that helped her in school.  She learned many ways to help herself and learn how to deal with her disability, while still learning the subject criteria.  If you are researching the questions for him, he is not benefiting from it.  He still has to learn other ways to learn and get around his disability.  He needs to check with his school for people who can teach him how to help himself.  Good luck!

Answer 3

The word is spouse-but as to your comment-what is wrong with helping him learn? As long as he's learning also