We are adopting out of foster care, and our son is aware of why he lives with us and he understands that he can't see his mommy till she gets better.
What are some of the grieving stages that you experienced with your children - big or small?
What can I do to help him grieve or should I just let him do it on his own, in his own time. What I do now is just listen to him when he says he misses her and we agree and give him a hug and tell him that she still loves him.
He is starting to get angry...when he doesn't get his way and will scream at the top of his lungs - I hate her, I hate everyone...etc. While I do not condone the blood curdling screaming, I don't want to tell him to stop. He will belt out a few of these screams if he has to do something he doesn't want to do...we just simply tell him that we don't scream like this in our house and if he does it again, he goes to bed 5 minutes early.
He has a book of some pictures of her and has asked to look at it from time to time, but hasn't since the TPR, should I take this out and just leave it next to his bed...this worry's me as he isn't sleeping at all. He averages about 4-5 hours a night, because he says that he can't sleep he only thinks about his mommy! We have him on a natural supplement recommended by his dr to help regulate his sleep...and school is helping him be more tired at the end of the day as well.
Just wondering...
No thumbs down or ridicule
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