Forced Relationship?

Question

I don't was to be bf/gf with my boyfriend. He blackmailed and emotionaly abused me just so he could say I'm his girlfriend. I want to get away but I don't know what to do. I'm only 13 and too young to be in this kind of relationship. One thing I cannot do is tell my parents because I'm not allowed to "date" until I am 16. I have one guy friend that know we are dating, but I am afraid to tell him that its just an act because I'm sure he'll get suspended for beating him up. I just don't know what to do! Help I think he might start physically abusing me if I don't keep the act going strong.

Answer 1

i dono.. but im really scared for u.

hope however u will chose to act will help u out.

next time do what ur parents say so u wont b ina trouble wit no way out.

Answer 2

Tell your parents!  You have too, they can help you. You don't want to end up seriously hurt so you have to disclose this to an adult and do it fast!   tell your teacher or counselor but tell some body soon.

Answer 3

Avoid your BF at all costs. If you see him, go the other direction if possible. Write him a letter and tell him your parents found out, that they would come down to the school to have the Principal and your parents to press charges against him. Don't be afraid to tell someone about your problem. If you don't, it's only going to keep getting worse.

Answer 4

well if you dont want to be with this guy, and your parents wont let you date, then wouldnt that be the perfect solution? tell them, "look, this dude wants to date me but i dont want to date him" and have them help you out?

just sayin....

Answer 5

Tell your parents your having a big problem and tell them.

It isn't your fault, tell them everything and also tell your guy friend. Just ask him for his help, have him stay with you always when your around him until you get things solved.

Just make sure your friend doesn't beat up the guy, just have him help you and support you while you get through this mess. But make sure you tell someone who can help you solve it!

Parents, councilors, police...someone with authority to help you.

Answer 6

take your bf and go to the school counselor with him.

Answer 7

You have to take a stand for youself. Never do anything that you don't want too. You better learn this now. I don't know hw can force you to be his girlfriend? If you don't want to be with him, Tell him that. Stand up for yourself,  girl. If he gets forceful or hits you, you better kick him in the balls. He'll leave you alone then.... Good luck.

Answer 8

Of course you tell your parents. Why give anyone else power over you?

Even just tell them he wants to date you, not that you HAVE... so they keep up the rule that you cant and they keep you away from him.

Answer 9

Report him, this sounds serious. Tell your parents right away. Your parents will understand because he is blackmailing you. Ignore what he says. Find a new boy

Answer 10

tell ya friends

all of them

they will take care of it

dont be afraid to get hit

if he touches u once he gets put away so i dont think he will

Answer 11

Is there a teacher or counselor at school that you can trust that you may be able to talk to about this?  You need to talk to someone to help you get out of this situation.  

I know you say you cannot tell your parents, but can you explain to them that he blackmailed you into this?  

Answer 12

So you would rather be in an abusive relationship than get in trouble with your parents for dating?

Wow...