In the early days of our relationship I have been upfront about my "Say No To Drugs" stand. He told me he used to party a lot in UK but has now mellowed down.
Fast-forward..now its been 3 years, we are soon to marry and I found out that he still occasionally takes it. E, Coke, 420 on top of chain smoking and alcohol. He told me these and I reiterated that I condone drug abuse, that it is a home wrecker. He said "but I like it" and mentioned that his close friends, a few close members of his family uses it. I feel that he is giving them as an excuse that it is ok to use drugs. I said it makes me sad that he cant, doesn't even want to fight his addictions/demons.
I am soon to move to UK from USA this month when I found out about this. He comes from a family with money, is mild mannered, has a stable job & is currently updating our UK house. Before I learned of the current drug use, I agreed to give up my American dream so I can start a family with him in UK. I cant compromise my morals and my future! Am I wrong?
I have never done any illicit drugs.I can never be happy knowing that addictions stand in the way. They will detach me. And I feel sooo sad to learn that he is resistant to therapy.
Any decent insights on this matter?
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