Found out my boyfriend cheated?

Question

im 4 months pregnant and he kissed another girl we are working things out and am back together im just wondering why would he do that if he says he really loves me and dosnt want to loose me?

Answer 1

because he does not love u,  u need to understand that he does not really care about you.  u need to find someone better, someone who will love u and your coming child.

Answer 2

How many times are you going to ask this question?  Do you honestly think many people are going to tell you to stay with him?

Answer 3

Because he loves himself more than he loves you.  Dump him.  You can do better.

Answer 4

that means he's still kinda iffy about settling down. you can forgive && forget once. but if he's up to it again ; then he's being selfish && showing you that he cares about himself more than he does you. The Baby will be fine as long as you both stay in his/her's life. Having a baby doesnt neccessarily mean you have to be together.

Answer 5

Dump him, and give the child a chance in

life, give it up for adoption!

Then get on birth control.

Answer 6

If he's broken your trust then your no longer in a relationship.

Go back to square one.

Ask yourself do you want to be with him or not.

If yes then try again, if no then its time to move on.

Why this person cheated on you, i have no idea since i do not know the person in question.

Perhaps he had strong feelings from the past abotu thsi person, perhaps he was badly drunk... who knows?

Answer 7

It's just a kiss.

Answer 8

maybe hes not for real.

maybe you should sit down and have a talk with him.

let him know how you feel

Answer 9

He will cheat again!  It is in his nature, since he did it once.  and the more pregnant you get, the more he will stray.

Now - if he really loved you, he would marry you right now!  Then if he cheats again, you have legal rights in a divorce.  No marriage -- no rights (other than child support).

Answer 10

if u think that he really loves u and wont do it again then keep him...but i think u can do better!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!