Freaking out at life and sense of direction?

Question

I am entering Grade 12 now and I am freaking out. I hear that your high school marks still affect your career life. I'm going to try really hard. But I'm afraid of University. I have no idea what I want to be. I've been thinking about an engineer, or a doctor, but I can't be any of those because I'm no suitable. I can't think outside the box for an engineer, and I can't even take a needle in the arm, so how can I give someone a needle shot. I get nervous a lot as you can tell and I even shake when i enter a place with lots of people when I'm alone. I get extremely self conscience.

I even get freaked out at my university. It's so big and I don't know how to get around. I mean, does the university have roads? or do I have to walk from the entrance, all the way to my building? How do I find my way around the university? How do I find my way inside the building?

I'm also afraid of my highschool. How do I find my way around the school? I'm moving as well and I have to take 3 buses to my high school but i'm afraid because I don't know when to get off. How do I know? I look on google maps and they are just streets, how do I know when to get off?

I need advice.

Answer 1

your life?  do you even know what "your life" even means.  listen here, life is air, food, clothing, and shelter.  everything else is just details.  high school is a big deal to universities, not to "life".  life doesn't care whether you have a degree or not.  i'm a free spirit, i don't like being held down to a job period, no matter what it is.  but, unless i live an amish life or hunker down in the middle of the wilderness, i need money so therefore i work a job.  i didn't go to college, as nothing interested me.  i work with a lot of people doing the same job i do, making the same amount as i do, some less.  and you know what, they have college degrees.  lets face it, our jobs are all going overseas any ways.

take one day at a time.  if you want to go to college, don't just look at what you want to do, but whats out there, what's in demand.  those guys with the college degrees are still paying their college off, so in reality, i make more money than they do even with their degree.  i'm not saying don't go to college, that's up to you.  but if you are going to spend all that money to do it, be wise about it.  you wouldn't pay $300 for a dvd would you?  don't pay $200,000 for a degree that is worthless.

Answer 2

It seems you have constant anxiety. I was the same. You need to breathe and realize "I'll get through this" don't let your mind/thoughts get the worse of you. Realize it's in your head and that when you come to that point you'll figure it out. Highschool grade 12 isn't that bad. If you have good study habits and are consistent in your homework you'll do fine and you will carry those skills to University. I was scared to but I learned to pull through the fear.

Answer 3

there are many types of different doctors and if you really don't want to be one that gives shots, you can be a pediatrician or something.  You shouldn't be scared of something thats good for you and your life...You really need to take things easy. one step at a time