Freind is pregnant at 14 ?!?!?

Question

my best Friend got pregnant when she was 14 to her boyfriend who then broke up with her after but then after her 15th birthday got back with her and let her move in with him and his family to make it easier for her. she has left school and goes to a teen pregnancy school to finish of her GCSES. i used to see her all the time but now i don't really see her alot because she is living with her boyfriend who i don't get on with. i don't know what to do ? her boyfriend wont let me anywhere near her and wont ever leave messages from me to her! im loosing her and am very worried!.

Answer 1

Your friend is very confused.  It sounds like this guy is also a control freak.  This is a bad situation for her, but unfortunatlely there's probably not much you can do.  Just keep trying to contact her, and be there for her if you ever do get contact with her.  

Chances are, this will eventually all come crashing down and she's going to need a friend there to help her pick up the pieces.

Answer 2

she sounds lost herself never mind you losing her

Answer 3

It is very sad but all you can do is let her know that you are there and then you must try to get on and move on with your life. It is here decision so there is nothing more that you can do.

Answer 4

tht first answer is so insensitive. its a shame ur loosing ur friends, sheel really need suport. you should try to speak to her, doesnt she have a mobile? or just go thre and dont leave untill they let you see her, that what i would do lol. i couldnt imagine what shes going through, i was pregnant at 20 and felt way 2 young. why wont her boyfriend let u see her? its not up to him who shes friends with. shes only a child who is having a child, she needs friends. a bloke who dumps her wen she gets pregnant doesnt really sound long term. im sure shell see sense. just be thre if she needs you. shes probably a bit confused and desperate to stay with the bloke cos hes the dad.  

Answer 5

I'm sorry to hear about you losing your friendship but its time to move on. I'm sure you can find a new best friend you don't want to be around that kind of drama plus your friend has to grow up now and take care of her responsibilities. Your still young and free of kids take advantage of that have fun and make new friends while you still can!

Answer 6

That's what happens when you get freaky that's life deal wit it

Answer 7

does she not have her own phone? go round there. if you really dont want to loose contact then you will really have to try, she is probly really rapped up with the baby and would probley really like to spend sometime with you and be able to talk and have a chat she is only 14 and is having to deal with alot at that age. if you need to then your gonna have to accept the boyfriend and try to get on good terms with him, its the hardest thing ever when youve got complications like that. you need to get to her without her boyfriend being involved first.

Answer 8

pregnant at 14??? ok... something wrong with the picture..

dont be friends with her, and think about it.. if she wanted to be friends with you she wouldve tried to contact you anyway.

Answer 9

Move on - if she was that bothered she would have made contact with you by now.

Nothing you can do - find a new best mate and let them get on with it

Answer 10

Sounds like he is breaking the law! your friend is a minor under age

There is other places for her to get help and still go to school.

Report this to the police as he knows he is breaking the law.

So are his parents by keeping her in there home with their son

The best thing you can do for your friend is call for her so the police can charge theses people, for contributing to an under age child.

She will thank you in the end as he sounds controlling and

abusive by not letting her see anyone and not letting her have any contact

with you or her friends.Call the police and speak with them about this.

Because they all are breaking the law in what they are doing , don't be afraid the police will be very nice to know this and won't give your name out my dear friend.The police are looking for people like this,to help them not to hurt them she has broken no law and if her family won't help then it's up to you to help your friend...what if she disappears  or is in danger she is your friend please help her by reporting this.There are lots of help for teens in trouble help your friend

don't delay this matter as it's a crime to keep an under aged girl in a home with a boy friend they have to be reported to the Police at once.

Answer 11

unfortunatly this is a difficult situation.

All you can do is let her knwo you're her friend. I would have thought this relationship wont last and she is going to need someone to help her through.

Try not to ditch her- send birthday cards etc.

I f you start trying to tell her what he is doing she will end up falling out with you. just be patient, one day she'll realise.

Answer 12

b suportiv

PREGNANT AT 14 NAUGHTY GIRL#!¬

Answer 13

it was her fault she got pregnant at 14 anyway. why not text her and arrange to meet up, if hes that overprotective of her then why did he dump her when she got pregnant. he sounds like an a*****e anyway, one word - REVENGE!!!