Frends that constantly attacks you!?

Question

friends that constantly attack you..

I use to be around people who critized me, put me down, never had faith in me and pretty much thinking i was NOTHING in life..

I always i took all there B.S. and always got stepped on, I admit it may sound mean but maybe the reason why i took all the B.S. is because i had no one else but them and i didn't want to be lonely.

I then finally met a guy, that made me happy. His a really intellegent, loyal, humble guy. He treats me how every girl should be treated. I introduced him to my family and they accepted him of course, but when i introduced him to my friends.. they were talking behind my back about our realtionship. They constantly brought so much drama to our realtionship and we were just doing fine. They would judge our realtionship like they know, but honestly they don't know s**t abour our realtionship.. if they lived with us than sure they can talk all they like but they don't! My man avoided the drama and just minded his own business. I couldn't take it anymore so i would argue back. So finally i had enough and i keep distance from them because i was happy and why couldn't they just be happy for me? So again they would talk there c**p saying he was taking away from them from me... and it just was constant drama when i really i just couldn't take there bulls**t anymore..

So now i'm 7 and half months pregnant.. I'm due Oct. 27;

Ok well.. not to be mean but do they have a right to see my baby in the hospital, when threwout my boyfriend's realtionship and pregnancy there were hatting... cause isn't that wrong.

HOW CAN THEY HOLD MY BABY IN THERE ARMS, WHEN ALL THEY DID WAS DISRESPECT US. I MEAN THEY BABY IS APAPRT OF HIM AND I RIGHT??

Answer 1

Ok, I love this topic, thanks for asking. You need to focus on your husband (bf), the baby, and you. Those friends should not come anywhere near your new life. WOW, congratutaltions on being parents-soon, you will have all new friends with all new things to do and talk about. Ditch the old friends, you done good!

Answer 2

How the f*** do you even call these people FRIENDS?! Are you nuts? They put you down, bash your happy relationship, and are never happy for you when you are happy. They aren't friends. They're a******s.

And now, they don't have any right to see your baby. You've already distanced yourself from them, so they don't need to. It's your baby. You get to decide who gets the joy of seeing your baby when its only hours old. Usually close family gets this privilege, not bitchy friends.

Answer 3

Tell them to keep the h**l away from you and your family. If they call you a friend and treat you like sh*t, then they must be horrible people and you probably shouldn't expose your child to them.