Freshmen, confidence, smart ( 5 stars)?

Question

I'm about to start highschool pretty soon.

I am really freaked out.

I want to have alot of friends and get good grades, be confident, have people liking me, be I guess "popular" if thats how you want to put it.

I really need true advice that comes from the heart deep down.

The true meaning to this.

Thanks everyone I hope you can answer this.

Answer 1

ok so im a freshmen to!

just be yourself i mean you can be popualr in your own certain group theres all kinds of little groups dnt be afraid to hang with the ppl  you like!  

Answer 2

Awh, sweetheart that's just the kind of think everybody walks into highschool wanting. But eventually you will see just how unimportant all that is.

If you want to be well-liked, then like well.

If you want good grades, be organized.

If you want to be confident, BE CONFIDENT!

I guarentee that if you walk down the halls like you're someone important, people will make you someone important. If you walk and act like you're already ahead of the game, and talk like you've got everything under control, you'll be just fine.

Answer 3

Study, be out going.  Really, don't worry about being popular.  Worry more about grades than anything else.  High school is where grades really count when it comes to going to a good college.  Middle school, they didn't matter too much.

And relax.  Freshman year isn't as difficult as people like to assume.  I got through mine easily without worrying about being popular.  i made friends naturally and ended up being well liked in my school just by being myself and not freaking out over people liking me.  I talked to people to see if they were the type of people I could get along with and I ended up forming a small group of friends.  but everyone knew who I was even if they didn't all spend time with me.  Just be yourself.  Popularity isn't important in the long run.  You'll make good friends just like you did when you went into middle school.  

For good grades, be organized.  It's important in high school to make sure your assignments are always on time.  high school should prepare you for college, so teachers won't take any c**p.  As one of my teachers put it "Unless the world came to an end, there is no excuse for you to not turn in this project so don' even try it."  My teachers don't even excuse you for deaths in the family, so make sure you're organized.

Answer 4

I understand your feelings&emotions right now :) I remember the days when I worried about going to high school. I wondered if I was gonna make new friends, get good grades, & be more outspoken. I am here to ensure you that high school will be a fun experience. :) You will meet new friends, learn new things, and have a load of fun.

Of course, I must admit that high school can be a bit stressful at times. However, all obstacles can be depleted, if you have the will&confidence to overcome 'em.

My advice to you -- Just be yourself. High school will come&go like a breeeezee. Later on, when you get to college, you'll actually miss attending high school. Believeee me :)  

Answer 5

Be yourself and just have fun with it. Don't try to force people to like you, they'll come around if you act normal. If you try too hard then people won't  be impressed by you.  

Answer 6

being "popular" isnt all that great it seems just be urself and whatnot

Answer 7

well I am mean there is nothing really that you can do to become popular, its really up to the honest but very judgmental opinion of ur high school. Why do u want to pretend to be someone that your not so u can be part of the in crowd just be yourself. Trust me your first year has a freshmen don't even worry about not being popular or cool. Cuz ur  automatically a loser just by the simple fact that your a freshmen. It seems kind of mean to say that but its the simple truth all high school people go through it you just go to wait and move up in the chain

but don't become someone that ur not just to "popular' be yourself not who they want you to be ok .

hope this helps good luck