Friend,abortion?

Question

I HAVE A FRIEND THAT IS PREGNANT AND HER MOTHER KNOWS AND HER MOTHER SAID SHE CAN KEEP THE BABY.AND SHE WANTS TO KEEP THE BABY.BUT MY FRIEND TOLD ME SHE HAS TO GET AN ABORTION.

WHAT SHOULD I TELL HER

Answer 1

It's not really your decision.  This is something she has to decide on her own, and the best thing you can do is to be there for her, no matter what she chooses to do.

Answer 2

I am confused, you said her mom said she can keep it and that she wants to keep it. So why does she want an abortion?

If it's the dad that is pressuring her...then that is a little different.

Answer 3

Why does she say she HAS to get an abortion?  She will regret it all her life.  She should NOT NOT NOT have an abortion.  If she is unable to keep the baby, there is ADOPTION.  Why murder an innocent baby?  I know it doesn't seem like it at this early stage in pregnancy, but it is an actual HUMAN inside her and a beautiful baby in development.  Truly she would hate herself if she aborted.  God help her and God bless you for being a good friend to her.

Answer 4

No one HAS to have an abortion.

Choices are made due to several factors:

1. Health

2. Financial

3. Sexual abuse

4. Age

They are, for the most part, still choices based on their cirumstances.

As for whether or not she chooses to do it, or not to do it, it is still her life and her body. Be there for her. Be supportive. Do NOT, by ANY means, JUDGE her.

You do not know the entire story, no matter how close of a friend you think you are. You will not be going through with the pregnancy, giving birth and then raising the child. She will. Along with her family.

Good luck to her in whatever decision she makes.

Answer 5

you are her friend, you may ask her why she says she has to get an abortion?

and dont try to do anything listen with your heart, and just let her know you care, with prayer you will know what to say.

it's obvious you do care deaply by this question

it's obvious she isnt sure about the whole thing by the information that you know so far.

david in prayer for her and you too, John chapters 3 and 22 will help you and her too.

Answer 6

Tell her that you are there for her whatever she decides. She is going to need a shoulder to cry on either way.

Answer 7

No she doesn't its up to her. Plz don't get an abortion. Tell her that if she doesn't want the baby give it up for adoption. I know how precious life is.

Answer 8

Your question is kind of confusing, why would she say she has to have an abortion if she doesn't want one and her mother doesn't want her to get one?