Friend 21 with 3 kids and she dont do **** for them i do?

Question

I have a friend that 21 and she have 3 kids now. The oldest is 2 the middle one is 1 and she is 37 and 3 days pregnant, her due date is Sept 3 but her kids have different daddy's, and there not around. she dont have a job and she drop out school, and i'm taking care of them kids.. What should i do? I mean if it wasnt for me them kids would b dirty and wouldnt b eating....I'm 21 finna go to college and have no kids. SHe white and her baby father's are black, and i'm black also

Those are my Godkids and i love them alot, but she sleep with n e one and i told her to get her tubes cut she said she dont want to

Answer 1

well for starters.... its nice of you to help take care of the kids... but just because she is white doesnt mean anything.. nor does it matter that her babys daddy are black.. what does that have to do with anything?? And your black? Thats irrelevent to the question. I am Italian and my babys daddy is black... i dont know why that makes a difference... anyways its nice of  you to be there for them kids but you have to remember that they are not your responsibility... call child services if you dont want to take care of them anymore... if she cant take care of the kids she got then she doesnt need to have anymore.. but shes not gonna listen to that and know one can tell her she cant have any more babys anyways... i donno but good luck

Answer 2

she shouldnt have her kids if she doesnt take care of them.  There is nothing you can do to make sure she doesnt have anymore. Next time she gets pregnant, suggest she have an abortion instead of bringing another child into the world that she cant take care of.

Answer 3

Well, you need to give her a couple of options. Sit her down in a calm place and tell her what's on your mind. Bring up about the tubes again but give the option that the children can be put up for adoption (this is not serious but just to set her straight!) and she might rethink the whole situation. Get a job also and try to multi-task; stay in school, tend to the kids and work at a job. Get some money to put the kids in a daycare and or give the kids a nanny. Also, make the mother be closer to her children - still help out the kids but lay a little more of the work on her because she is the mother, isn't she?