Friend : Did he miss me back?

Question

Assalamualaikum,

I lost my bestfriend for 2 years now..

he and I are still in the same school.. we're both 15..

I miss him so bad.. ( we both guy and we're not g*y )..

before we use to share our memories together.. but right now..

we pass like we don't know each other..

I sometimes glance at him .. and I notice he did the same too..( but not so sure though )..

what should I do?.. I'm shy to talk to him.. I dont know why..

How can I approach him? my girlfriend is his friend ex-girlfriend..

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This suppose to be at friend section.. sorry :)

Answer 1

Just go up to him and say "yo sup dude" and then let it go on from there.

Peace

Answer 2

"my girlfriend is his friend ex-girlfriend"

good for 3 of you

God bless!

Answer 3

your in a weird place going out with his ex. talk to him. make the effort. what is there to loose?  

Answer 4

oh ! you miss him , that mean you Love him right ?, so you should have to tell him that you Love him, Say to him : " You are my khaleel, I  Love you for the sake of Allaah."

If a person knows that you love him, he will love you too, even though hearts may recognize and love one another without actually speaking, as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Souls are like conscripted soldiers; those whom they recognize, they get along with, and those whom they do not recognize, they will not get along with.” But if a person says it with his tongue, this will increase the love in the heart, so you should say: “I love you for the sake of Allaah.”

Answer 5

Go to Psychiatrist  

Answer 6

3 issues:

1)  your relationship with your friend- what exactly is keeping you apart? it seems there's nothing there- except shame

2) which leads to your relationship with a girl at the age of 15.  i see having a "girlfriend" as wrong especially if you mean it the way it is used in the US. one wrong action leads to other wrong actions

Allah wants you to live, He does not want to take it away from you. Allah wants to complete His Blessings upon you.  you need to recognise that shaytaan knows how to divide people and he uses small things like this to do so- because these "small things" are not really small things, they explode in our faces and leave us not knowing what to do

3) what's up with your nick name?  no offense!!

Answer 7

I wont comment on the Girlfriend part, but with friends thats fairly common. My friend left the place of work without telling me - so suddenly that I still cant believe he did that! Its been some months and we used to contact everyday!!! He gave no numbers and no mails and just no whereabouts... He didnt even say if I was wrong somewhere down the lane... Some people dont need friends. The sad thing, they dont realise that we may need them!

TW K

Answer 8

WSalaam

I would advise you to get rid of your shyness and approach him.  Maintaining relationships before marriage is wrong please reflect on that.