Friend Problems.. PLEASE Help?

Question

my friend, let's say her name's betty lol..

well betty is reall nice and all, but she always wants to come over my house or hang out or something, but i've been really busy lately.. i keep telling her no you can't cuz i'm babysitting or something.

and she's like i'll help you, and then i say that my parents won't let her, and she's like ask.

but this is like everyday, and it's annoying.

she like doesn't leave me alone, when she calls me i don't pick up cuz i know she's gunna ask me to ask if she could come..

idk what to tell her to make her stop, i DID tell her that she has to stop asking cuz it's annoying, but i think she thought i was kidding...

what do i say!?!?

please, and thankyouu (:

Answer 1

one thing you shouldnt do is avoid her. that's not really going to help any relationship. she really wants to be your friend i guess -- but she's pushing a little hard. maybe its something about her she can't help, or maybe she did think you were kidding. try to tell her again, but dont lie. make one serious conversation. seriously it's not going to help by not saying anything though you already have. try once again, but have a more serious tone. but dont make it too harsh -- try to say good and bad things bout her , and as you know one bad thing would be trying too hard to hang out. plan out a regular date to meet. that would make things better.

thats just my own opinion ;) hope it helped and good luck!

Answer 2

She's lonely because your her best friend. And please answer mine.

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Answer 3

well maybe you should just come forward to her and if you want to be her friend you can be like "id still like to stay friends, but i think i need a break because i am so busy i don't really have time for social activities right now." you could also say "i need a break from playing all the time" even if you arent busy

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Answer 4

Ya this happens lots of times with friends who hang out way to much..once you start hanging out you start to fight.. okay i think you should talk to her seriously and tell her your not kidding if she gets mad she wil get over it... just tell her i need some space i dont want to loose you as a friend but you are annoying me..tell her you care about her but you are just to busy these days..when she comes over tell her she cant see your face on the phone to tell if your joking or not. this happend to me and my friend and now were enemys cause we got tired of each other.. just try to keep it cool with her and tell her you need some time to think and be alone.. okay and stuff then she might let you and if she dosnt tell her ur serious and you need to take a breath and do your own work..when she asks to help you with babysitting tell her its your work and YOU need to do it :)

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Answer 5

Do the same thing to her...Eventually, she'll realize how annoyingn she was and stop...

Answer 6

Betty is used to getting her way and she is good at it.  She doesn't recognize boundaries like you do.  It can be so annoying.  You stand firm, just tell the truth.  No means no and tell her you would appreciate her if she would respect that.  Same thing with guys, they'll be annoying too.  You don't have to avoid them because they will just keep coming back.  It's hard to just flat out hurt their feelings, but in the end, it will save your feelings.  And once you are bold a few times it gets easier.  Or put her on your reject list so her calls quit coming through....give people like this indications that you aren't going to put up with that kind of behavior and they may straighten up.  Otherwise, they may think they can run all over you.