Friend Problems..........?

Question

Okay, so I've been friends with...lets call her Lauren....for about 9 years. We've been fine up until last year. That's when she became being rude and mean to me.

Whenever she wants me to do something for her, she actually punches me like on top of my head. Once we were in a movie theater & the only ones in there, & she started spitting crumbs of popcorn at me and it landed all over (in my hair, on the side of my face, ect). Also, when I tell her to stop, she just keeps doing it. She also makes fun of the way I talk, my hair & when I get zits & stuff.

Also, once I cried in school (I'm really sensitive) and the next day, in PE, she told me to do something, I said no, & she said "what? are you gonna cry about it?" And yesterday I was texting her and she said that she owns me, you know, like a pet or something. And today she ditched me at lunch to sit with someone else, so I had to sit with some...wel, really dorky people.

Idk if I should stay friends with her or what. Please help

btw, sorry for going on & on(:

Answer 1

You dont need this!  What shes doing is totally uncalled for.  Im sure she wouldnt like it if you done that to her!  Move on and find some other people who will cherish your friendship.  Not spit on you

-JW

Answer 2

This is not a friend.  This is a mean, nasty, abusive  b***h that gets off on bullying you.  I would guess she has at least one abusive parent at home that has been teaching her this behavior and now she's trying it out for herself.  You are an easy target because you are sensitive and you take it from her.  

Dump this girl.  Stop thinking of her as a friend and calmly walk away each time she starts her bullying routine.

Don't discount the dorks.  They may be the nicest people you will ever know, but you have been judging them based on their appearance or the way they dress.

Answer 3

Sounds like a *****. Forget about her and make new friends.  

Answer 4

WOW... i would seriously ditch her and tell her that she is super rude and mean and that i am not friends with her anymore. Those types of pplz dont usually change back and i bet something/someone got in her head to make her like that! Make new friends/stick with other pplz to keep your mind off her. :)&&bestofwishes

Answer 5

Ditch the ***** & make new friends. If she tells you to do something for her tell her to **** off. not it a innocent grl voice but like yelll at her =)

Answer 6

She doesn't sound very nice.  Don't hang out with her anymore!  And if she asks why, like all those mean people that think they're your friend DO, then tell her why.  If she denies it, then just walk away and don't talk to her.  

If she apologizes, don't just say it's all okay now, think about it before you make your choice.