Friend dilemma please help ?

Question

in november i went to london on a trip with my mom and i was really looking forward to it. my friends and i have a tradition so called of giving plane letters when we go on a trip. so i went to skwl the day b4 i left and i was expecting plane letters but not one of my 3 close friends gave me one and i saw them whispering like did you make her something. then i went home crying to my mom bc i was so upset and then one of my friends comes over and drops like a half a page plane letter that obviously took her 2 minutes to make. and it was on my mind the entire trip. so fast forward to june and one of my friend is going on a trip to new york so bc i didnt want to make her feel how i had felt i made her a 5 page plane letter and my 2 other friends went and got a teddy bear for her that said we love you and you could tell they had gone all out and in the end they were busy and forgot to give it to her and so then we r all in class when my friend is in new york and the two other friends say she wont feel bad well just give it to her as a welcome back gift. so they put it on her bed and of course the friend who was in ny comes back and loves it and totally forgets abt what i made her. and like its already august but im moving and im not sure if i want to keep in touch with them and if so i cant tell them how hurt i was but i want to tell them please help!!! but it also happened in november so it seems like random to bring it up

Answer 1

I have been in the same boat as you are: not very well liked and 'nobody'. They were your friends right? All you can do is to accept whatever parting salutes they give and if they offer to keep in touch, keep in touch with them.

Don't be hurt. Like me you liked them in heart, but never showed your feelings. In friendship you must show how you like them by talking and listening to them. When you move on to another place, I advice you to start new. Forget whatever that has happened till now. Shed your shyness and talk with your prospective new friends more than what you have done to your old friends. Show them your affection by helping and more importantly talk more.

ALL THE BEST!

UPDATED:

So you were comfortable talking with them right? I am sorry that I misunderstood you. Well you should have said about to this to them earlier. Well since the time for parting has come, it is definitely not the time to say about this to them. I'm sorry but I think that you must bury these unsaid things. This is definitely not the time to fight about these things. Your friends will definitely want to give a warm farewell. After parting you will only feel to remember whatever good things that they have done for you. These things will go out of the mind. Once again, I think there is no point in picking up a fight because it will only leave bad memories in your mind.

Once again begin afresh; Just look back what you have done for your friends, what good they have done for you. Also look at the bad points. Analyse and begin a better relationship with your new friends.

Don't forget to keep in touch with your old friends though.

HOPE THIS ONE HELPS.

Feel free to ask more if in doubt. I will look at this question once again before expiration.