Friend hates my guts for telling on her. What to do?

Question

Kay, My "friend" was telling every one she was smoking weed. (turns out she wasn't)

so I fliped out and told her mother. her mother questined her

So I get a text from my "friend"

"Well I hope you're happy. I'm going to jail thanks to you. talk to you again in a few months"

Now I know she wasn't going to jail because

1. shes 13

2. if she didn't do anything she dosent have to worry

3. She needs to pee in a cup before they do anything

I sent her "you're a bad lier"

and she said "Well I don't care anymore thanks for telling my mom c**p. I hope you're happy you'll never see me again"

I didn't reply.

I also got info from her mother, Her mother told me she threaded to call the cops if she caught her with anything and that my "friend" was over reacting to make me feel bad

(witch worked because she got mad at me for caring about her)

Anyways now my "friend" is telling just about every one I know c**p about me (e.g 'I'm pregnet at 14', 'I've f*cked ever guy in school' that kinda c**p)

and well....it p*sses me off. So can anyone give me soma advice?

Answer 1

four words and more: don't. be. her. friend.

i might sound kinda harsh, but you should have left her the minute you knew that she was telling people she was smoking weed. she's going to grow up to be one of those troublemakers. (show this to that friend, i don't really care, cuz it's true). and you DEFINITELY should leave her if she tells people rumors about you, especially the ones that you mentioned. the quotation marks ("friend") are very necessary in this case.

and obviously, she doesn't care if it pisses you off, so she will keep on going and going and going. but don't tell her that old stuff like "how would you feel if you were me". instead, leave her alone for up to a month (or 30 days, if u wanna be exact), and if she doesn't blow up, talk to the school counselor and tell her to tell your friend that an anonymous student called her to the counselor.

might help, might not. it's the best thing i have, tho. =]

Answer 2

You shouldn't be her friend anymore if she has that side to her.