Friend help Please!?

Question

before we broke up for the summer holidays,

I had a an argument with my best friend,and her best friend

some pretty nasty stuff was said,because her best friend was always hanging around with her,saying stuff about me and kinda stealing her away from me,

know my bestfriend is telling everybody i said stuff about them.

when i never,and shes telling everybody so they will turn against me,

shes pretty two faced,i cant make friends easily.and shes truing people away from me.don't wont to go back to school from all the stuff whats been happening

i am dreading it so much.

what shall i dio?

Answer 1

Arguments among friends is a normal thing, but they can sometimes get out of hand.  I would say... once you go back to school, act like everything is normal.  There is too much drama going on with everyone else so no one will make a huge deal out of your situation unless you want to make it a big deal.  Sometimes, things need time to cool off.  If she is truly your best friend then she will realize how important you are to her.  Things could get awkward between you two and if either of you don't feel comfortable anymore, one of you will talk and try to reconcile.  That's what real friends do.  Don't stress over this too much.  If she turns out to be a faker, then ditch her and get some other friends!

Answer 2

You just be the bigger person in this.

Yes, people will be talking when you get back to school.

All you have to do is not talk about this girl.

Just keep your cool and be happy to see your friends.

These other people will see that she is being heartless to you and look up to you for being mature.

If you fight back and talk behind her back it will just prove this girl right.

If you did say stuff about people you will need to deal with the outcome.

If you didn't talk about these people then you have nothing to worry about.

Sorry if this wasn't any help but, i went through the same thing last year. this is how i handled it and it worked well :)

Answer 3

call your friend and talk it through. that's the only way it'll stop

Answer 4

Get over it. Kids are always gonna be stupid, with the very rare occasion of finding a good kid, but it is rare.

She is not your best friend or she wouldn't be saying what she's saying. Just move on and go to school like it's your first day. If they talk to you, fine, if not, just look for better friends to have.