Friend help Pleaseeeee?.........?

Question

ok. so heres my little story :)

I have been hanging out w/ (just makin up names here) beth, and tay. for about a year and a half. but i also have 2 besties in the whole wide world... sandy and hanna. and i like sandy and hanna better b/c they are really great friends and beth and tay are kinda like not my friend type. (Beth and tay are bffs, and sandy and hanna r bffs. see they don't like each other like a "clique" if ya no wat i mean) but i wanna hang out with sandy and hanna. but i already hang out with beth and tay. and i dont know how or what to do so i can like not hang with beth and tay, and hang out with sandy and hanna. .... like switching "cliques" but its really hard for me right now and idk wat to do. so if u have any suggestions plzz help! thaxx [[ :

sorry if you dont get the whole story its confusing.!

Answer 1

I understand...

You feel like you are betraying the other party if you hang out with another right?

When you make friends, always keep in mind-I can choose who I want to make friends with. It doesn't mean you can't make friends with A whose enemy is B , And B is your best friend. Nor can your friend control who you want to make friends with. Then that person is a "friend" who controls your freedom.

There is no connection between them that hurts you, nor are you doing any harm to them.

They are the friends you make. In fact, I encourage you to be the middle man. =) It would also be easier if you could hang out with all of them.

you are makes who you are makes a difference to them.

Answer 2

hang out the ones makes you happy the most, and try to be friends with both if they don't like. oh well.

Answer 3

maybe u could invite all of them to ur house or mayb u could all become friends...??? do wat u think is right.