Friend help please???

Question

I have one group of friends who are uhh.. popular I guess. I also have a group of friends who are kinda.. nerdy. Both groups are really great friends but both want me to hang out with them at the same time. HELP PLEASE!

Answer 1

maybe spilt the day? Dont just hang out wit them bc there popular....and dont hang out with the ota group tring to make ur self look good. Im not sayin you are im just saying.... Maybe spilt the day or GO with the group that you have more in common with.... Good luck

Answer 2

Hang out with them both, if they get mad then they aren't true friends anyways.

Just switch on and off. Who you are in school doesn't matter later in life, so don't choose one group just because of their popularity.  

Answer 3

Tell both groups to meet you somewhere at tha same time.. (dont tell them tha other group is going) when they both get there say "look, all of you are my friends and I think we should all hang out.." If they dont wanna b ur friends anymore dey arent TRUE FRIENDS!!

Answer 4

While I do agree with the whole hang out with the friends with the best time, I suggest this...if they both groups want you to come over, cancel period.

One of the most challenging things in life when it comes to friends is balancing.

Here's a thought. Try getting the groups together. If you are friends with both groups. Congrats, your the link.  

Answer 5

I am kinda in the same place. I just make time for both of my groups of friends. It really isn't fair to dump one group of friends so you can always hang out with the other.

Answer 6

You could introduce them to each other to make it easier.  And hope that at least a few from the "popular" and "nerdy" groups get along. Of course you can't force someone to like another person though.

What I would do at that point is to try to hang out w/one group, then switch w/the other group sometime.  Just try to balance it out.    

Answer 7

well wat i would do is not care about that kind of label thing. So wat, do wat u want, if u like them both, hang out with both. Plus if u try to like hang out with one and totally forget about the other, there'll be a problem; that group will probably stop talking to u and itll be all jumbly and bad

Answer 8

if i were you, I would explain the situation with the both side. You should tell the popular one's  that you cant come with them at the same time being with the nerd one's. you should make a deal with each other, or make a schedule for better results. But if i were you i would come with the nerdy one's coz they need much attention than those of the popular one's.

Answer 9

The thing that comes to mind is to find something that you both like to do- shopping at the mall... there are so many different stores there!

Maybe go to a good movie at a theater!

Good luck- and if that doesn't work, don't be hurt, enjoy the friendships you have!

ps. I am on the nerdy-side of my own friendship, most of my friends are SUPER smart!!!!

Answer 10

Hang out with the group of friends that you have the best time with.