Friend mandy having s*x at 14 how can i help her stop?

Question

whats wrong emotionally about having s*x at that age i can add from what i have already said.and what are some other dangers?

Answer 1

I'm not sure what you mean by ''whats wrong emotionally about having s*x at that age i can add from what i have already said''.

You can try explaining to her why you think it's a bad idea.

If you don't think you can do this well enough on your own,

you can get the book "The Magic Touch", which is meant primarily for Jews, but explains the subject excellently for anyone.(You can find it on Amazon.com.)

It sounds like you really care about her, so she'll probably understand that and won't be offended. Still, you'll want to be careful how you do this.

I think everyone else covered the pregnancy/disease issue.

Answer 2

If she thinks she's ready for it, why not? But make sure she practise safe s*x. She won't want any babies at such a young age.  

Answer 3

Don't tell her how to stop, tell her how to be safe and make her aware of the possibility of pregnancy and sexually transmitted disease. Make sure she is not being pressured into having s*x !

Hope this helps

Answer 4

Dangers are Diseases that lead to death some S.T.D.s lead to cancer also some boys/men can be rough and damage uterous.

More than likely she is having s*x for attention and once they come they go if she is needing att. you should try to find an adult to spend time with her.

No tattling then you'll lose her trust but a hint to parent like wow shes out again our you sure joejoe is good for her might buy the parent a clue.

Answer 5

CAUSE SHES NOT MATURE ENOUGH,,I HOPE SHES WEARING PROTECTION CAUSE SHE DOESNT NEED TO HAVE  A BABY,,CAUSE SHES STILL A BABY HERSELF,N SHE CAN GET AIDS,,N DIE...PEACE

Answer 6

The other answers seriously overestimate the dangers from STD's from having s*x. Particularly if it's with another young person...

It's more likely she's in danger of become a s*x-toy for the boys and have people stop respecting her...

but if she's doing it in a relationship and there's no power difference or anything there is really a problem...

Answer 7

Ask her if she's ready to deal with prgnancy if it happens.. That's what s*x is for!  Young teens are usually not mature enough to practise safe s*x...find her a vibrator maybe?

Answer 8

you should sit down and talk to her!

dont attack her! she's already doin it!

and theres nuthin worse that could happen!

sit down with her! and tell her that u understand why she mite want to b doing this! and that it mite feel mature and feel good.

but she should no that the guy! no matter wat age! that is doing it with her is not a guy worth being with!

if he was older then he is using her!

if he is her age then he is jst too young!

remember not to attack her!

try listening to wat she says!

DONT ARGUE no matter wat! cuz she will resent u for it!

you would rather she keeps doin it and still b friends with her

then she keeps doin it and not b friends with you

or hopefully u'll make her understand and u stay friends and u'd have helped a friend!

i respect u tryin to help!

keep it up! a friend like u rarely comes in a lifetime!

Answer 9

Hello!,

To start off with its good that she had as a friend who she can trust meaning you to say that she's having s*x with her boyfriend. I think the thing you need to find out is, is she using some sort of protection such as the pill and is her boyfriend using condoms. If they are both using protection then it should be safe but they should always remember protection. If she has any worries about her sexual relationship then she could always see a nhs nurse who would answer all her questions and yours. It is always good to use protection as it can stop you getting sexual diseases and also stop any unwanted pregnancies.

Best Wishes X

Answer 10

If she is REALLY ready for it, let her do it. It's not any of your business. As long as she's using protection against STD's and babies, she's fine.