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Friend of mine is g*y and quite likes this other bloke?

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they know each other for 3 days now..(i know very less time) but my friend says he feels very good vibes around that guy. Now the problem is, that other bloke has told my friend clearly he doesn't believe in commitment and can never stay with one guy. My friend on the other hand does want a monogamous relationship. How should he handle this situation? My friend thinks this bloke could be the one. serious replies only.. thanks!

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The other bloke has good vibes, but he does not live according to his vibes.  He has great potential, but he is not yet mature or trustworthy.

If your friend justs wants to have a fun time for a little bit, the bloke is okay.  But if he wants a long-term relationship, the other bloke is just not ready.  He said so himself.  Believe him.

If the other guy were older and more thoughtful, he might possibly grow to be "the one".  But he is just not there yet.  Your good g*y friend should not deceive himself.  The other guys just wants to have a good time for now.  Right now, he is not ready for a monogamous relationship.

Your friend should continue looking elsewhere.
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I could not agree more with flood up there.

Never EVER enter into a relationship with someone who is not giving it 120%.  That is a complete waste.
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The rules are stated, sounds like a waiting game.
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A guy that can't commit isnt a guy worth being with. I would never be in a relationship, regardless of my feelings for a guy, if I didnt feel they were giving their 100% like i would be.

3 days also isnt enough time to really know if someone is the 'one' - or maybe i don't believe in love at first sight. Your friend has an infatuation that may not last the whole road anyway.

Tell him to take it easy, there is no need to rush if he really likes the guy. If he is the 'one' he'll come around.
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Tell him to........Move on!
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well its always worth a shot, why not?

P.S. i love that you said bloke, you old chap! haha.
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