Friend problem????????

Question

I have a friend who I've known for only a little more than a year, and she seems really nice and fun at school. Outside of school, most of my friends call me like 5 times everyday, and we hang out a lot. With this new friend, she sounds really weird, and not like herself on the phone. Instead of talking for hours like I do with my other friends, it seems the most I can talk to her is a couple of minutes. Idon'tt know if I'm justparanoidd or something, but she really seems depressed and shedoesn'tt sound like herself at all.... What should I do?

Answer 1

i'm the same way, i hate talking on the phone.. she must be the same way and it is normal, talking on the phone 5 times a day with the same person is crazy

Answer 2

try to talk to her face to face. see what's up with her. and see if there's anything that is bothering her.

Answer 3

Some people just don't like talking on the phone...they might be one of those people.

Answer 4

It could be her home life. It may not be as happy as you think it is. She may have issues that she can't talk about.

Answer 5

Alright so maybe your friend hasn't open up to you because she might feel self conscience. Maybe she just doesn't think she knows you enough to open up..... Also there could be the chance that there is something wrong  at home. You should have a serious talk with her and tell her how you feel and ask if something is wrong and if there is, that you will try to help as much as you can. If your friend is just now starting to act like this there is a chance that there might be something wrong at home or there's something wrong with her. However, if she always acts like this then she might just be shy and self conscience and you should then just give her time to open up or help her open up like finding more about her and helping her participate in activities she likes so that she opens up and shows her true side. On the other hand, if she is just starting to act this way then you should talk to her and see how you can help. Make sure that you make it clear that you are just concern for your friend and that you want to help so that she doesn't think you are nosy. Asking what is wrong with her will make you feel better because you will know what is wrong and it might help your friend if you are able to help. Ask your friend in a nice and understanding way so that she believes you are trying to help her and not being nosy. i hope i have helped! :) tell me how it went....

Answer 6

she probably has a sucky home life that ould be my best guess or she just isnt a phone person

when you become better friends you can ask if everythings ok at home or bring up phones like say you liek texting but would rather talk and see if she doesnt really like to talk on the phone or something

Answer 7

ask her whuts wronq or if she qets an attuitude call tha b**** out ! l0l