Friend problemos please Help?

Question

Okay so I have 3 friends. There names are: Chelsea, Sadie, and Maria.

Chelsea recently became a bit of a wh*re. She makes out with every guy she meets. She lost her virginity, and she's proud of it. I don't like hanging out with her since she became this way.

Sadie is really nice but she recently 'came out' to me and told me she was a bisexual. I was totally cool with it, but then she said that she liked me..i was shocked & i didn't know what to say. so we ended up kissing, i hated it and she loved it. It's so confusing.

Maria used to be a really smart bookworm but she put too much pressure on herself and now she does drugs (pot). I also heard her talking to Chelsea about trying Heroin. I heard that's highly addictive and I'm worried.

Should I dump all of these friends of mine?

Answer 1

Hi honestly you should dump all of these friends and find some new ones. They are a bad influence on you because they are doing bad things and could evantually pressure you into doing them. I think you should find some friends that you are more comfortable around and arent doing things that could harm themselves and evantuallt you.

Sorry your friends did this but it is time to find more friends that arent out to hurt themselves.

Answer 2

oh my those are some problems they are bad influences if you aren't comfortable around them get new friends

Answer 3

Have you heard of the saying, Birds of a feather, flock together? When you have a reputation that you need to think about, go through each item and pros and cons. If one friend is a whor...as you said, then her male friends will think you are just like she is and start really giving you a hard time. If you loose your virginity, you can never get it back and also risk getting sexual diseases.

Your bi friend, don't be confused or feel guilty for kissing her, that does not mean that you are having a sexual identity problem. That just means some girls have experimented together and thats that. Don't worry. about if you want to be friends with her,, if she likes you more than a friend tell her you are not into being bi and being friends are ok, but nothing else. If she doesn't want to be just a friend, then you need to move on.

The bookworm into drugs, then this is a definiate walk away from. Being around someone who uses drugs is something that you have to stay away from. This is a very dangerous life to lead. Your only responsibility is to decide if you are going to go to an adult and actually let them know where your friend is heading with drug use. She will hate you forever, but as it is now, what will it matter? She will ruin her life anyway with the drugs.

Dumping your friends all three, I think would be a good idea for you because it sounds as if you will not be strong enough to always say NO. The young lady who is leading into the world of drugs sounds very serious to me. Saying that the whor..... could also start leading a double life. When you start sleeping around then if you meet someone who is into the life...well...guess where that can lead for her> Stay sober, Stay clean Stay secure within yourself......

Answer 4

hola umm if were in this postion i wud drop them nd make new friends  but still keep the old ones close

Answer 5

Get new friends my love