Friend problems!!! HELP!?

Question

Ok. so i have two best friends... and one of them i hang out with all the time... lets call her Shay. and the other i barely ever hang out with because we live kinda far away... lets call her Hayden. so all this summer i have hung out with shay for pretty much every day. but yesterday hayden called to hang out. so i took the opportunity to come and hang out with her. but then when i got back to my house this morning shay called me and started freaking out that i had been hanging out with Hayden. she said that i ditched her to go and hang out with hayden... even though shay and i never made any previous plans! she said that i should have told her that she was going to hang out with hayden instead of going behind her back.

i was totally shocked that she would say that! i mean she has done this is the past... but i don't even know how she found out this time! mean, i didn't care if she were to find out, but... idk! so i guess my question is... why did she freak out so badly and what can i do to prevent it in the future!?!? please help me!

Answer 1

she doesnt need to freak out like that...but its probably because you 2 have hung out together EVERY day the summer it seems to her as if you guys are one and need to tell eachother when and where what how everything is going...basicvally have some space between you two...you dont need to see eachother everyday...keep ur options open and hang out with more people and be more social...

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