Friend problems hoes these days.?

Question

okay well i have this friend and shes a big ***** like she so conceited and she always trys to bring ppl down and like shes okay sometimes but i rlly want her out of my life cuz shes fake and annoying but if i try to shes in a gang and i noe shes going to get me jumped and i don't know what to cuz she always calls me likeI'mm her best friend land i rlly want her to leave me alone but idon'tt want to get beat up by her gang =[..SOo any solution? anddon'tt tell me to move away or anything shell find me with her friends.

Answer 1

Just fake to be her friend. I'm sorry but i would do it if i was you! I wouldn't  want to be beat up! Like if she says wanna hang out? Make up an excuse and say oh well maybe next time sorry!

Answer 2

tell her that you do not want to be your friend and if anything goes down tell your parents or the police

Answer 3

I have the exact same problem.. last year this girl thought she was the queen of me i i eventually got sick of it and we fought..pprbly not what you wanna hear but it has to happen you have to sick up for yourself..its just one fight.. and even if you get the tar beat outta you you will feel so much betta

Answer 4

just try to drift away from her shell get the idea that yu dnt wanna be friends wit her

Answer 5

ask her to stop

Answer 6

Hi Lala    

               aaaw thats so sad that your in this situation. I dont know how old you are but if your young plz discuss this with your parents or an older sibling; they will understand dont worry because you need family support so you wont be alone in this, Cut her short ,dont hang around with her and  try and avoid her as much as possible, if she calls you tell your family members to say your not allowed to take any calls. Eventually this girl will get tired and find another so called best friend. Im sure she gives off this negative vibe and im glad you realize shes not a good friend,,

good luck (Buena Suerte) irma

Answer 7

Confront her in a pacifist manner. If you feel threatened AT ALL, ask your other friends for support. If she does anything to emotionally, physically or even mentally hurt you, contact a trusted adult to stop the abuse. If this has anything to do with a gang, then this is a very serious situation that you must handle seriously.  

Answer 8

wow people are no help!...

i had a b*** friend like that well not really butt

be like oh im bizzy this day with a girl butt ill see ya tuesday slowly find difrent people to hang with and thayl be like "what ev"

stay frendley with her butt dont hang out with her STAY bizy!

      

hope it works for u!  luv tresa

Answer 9

hmm..well i guess gradually stop talking to her..blame it on school work or something..

Answer 10

Talk to her and tell her how you feel, tell her she being fake and putting people down. Don't be afraid of her gang. Most of the time it people just make gangs to feel cool and they don't do anything. But if her gang is for real tell her that if she did consider you a real friend she wouldn't do something like that.                     You could always ignore her, your not exactly telling her that she's fake and all and maybe she'll start backing of and you guys wont talk anymore.  

Answer 11

Sounds like your the s**t to me.

PS: I pleasured myself to your story, mmmmm............ oh yah..........

Answer 12

oh plz tell her off and get your closest friends and family members that your tight with and fight it out if theres a problem. so that way you have an army too.

Answer 13

ughhhhhh what a ***** iilll beat tht s**t up for you she must sound desperate if she has a gang why the h**l would she be hanging out with youu =] ahahhaa

Answer 14

Just try to go with the flow, and try, TRY to change things around.

Answer 15

Why don't you just start hanging out with some other people and then she will get the hint? Don't talk to her on the phone. Tell her you are punished or something. You know, ignore something and maybe it will go away. I have had people I didn't like who thought they were my best friend. I just stayed away and eventually they moved on to someone else!

Answer 16

few sols

1. ask her to stop

It won't hurt and if she teases u ignore her

2. tell and adult or teacher

She's a bully

3. Humiliation

This is however not the right thing but teens do it. You'll get beaten up in the process so don't do it.

Answer 17

First of all, I apologize for you being in this situation. It is a tough thing to handle. First, have you already tried discussing about how you don't like how she acts? Perhaps she may not be realizing what she is doing. (if she does know or you already talked to her, im sorry, just trying to cover all areas)

Second, if you are really that worried, you should let someone know about this. Gangs are not a thing to take lightly. Also, if she calls, just keep it short and sweet. Occupy your time with new friends. If things get worse, contact authorities. It is best to keep violence as little as necessary. If you want to clarify anything so I can understand the situation more, that would be helpful too.

Good luck!

Katya

Answer 18

slowly grow apart from her. dont be obvious if you scared.  

Answer 19

tell her that you would like to meet other kinds of people and that ur relationship with her just , doesn't fit. and if she threatens you than you can report it. but have a recorder when you tell her this just in case. good luck

ciao