Friend thinks of me more than a friend...?

Question

Okay.. well this guy fancies me, and he's told me too my face..

but im not sure what to do.. I dont really like him that way.

Anyway to tell him i dont want to be more than friends without hurting his feelings?

Answer 1

Just say that, I'm sorry I'm flattered that you feel that way about me however i cherish our friendship to much to risk losing it.

Answer 2

U gonna have to tell him the truth and let him deal with it in his own way.

Best to sort it quick before his feelings get deeper and you have a nightmare and a destroyed friendship on your hands.

Ive been here myself its not pretty when you tell the other person you just wanna be friends..they always take it as a personal dig against themselves.

Theres no actual nice way to let them down easy, you just gotta tell the truth and hope your friend accepts it and moves on with somebody else.

Good Luck and hope you both can continue to be friends.

Answer 3

There is no other way. Just try this line," when I would have to choose between love and friendship in your case I will prefer friendship," But you have to make your point clear before he gets serious.

Answer 4

Say just that......I don't want to be more than friends.