Friend trouble! Please help!?

Question

This is a tough situation. One girl i know, lets call her S, told me she didn't think my friend R's gf V exists. So, I felt really terrible holding this a secret because V and I are so close, and so is R. I told V and she told R about what S was saying about them and now, they are making me and my bf choose who we want to be friends with. I don't know what to do! My bf and I are good friends with all of them, including S's bf. How can we solve this problem? thanks!

Answer 1

I think you should just try to keep the peace and stay neutral as long as possible. You should continue to be friends with all of them, because it isn't right that you have to choose. You should let your friends know what kind of position this is putting you in, and how you feel about it.

Answer 2

Lets say you have a stick (A) up your *** (B) and your getting hemmroids like your going out of style (C)

My solution?

A+B / C = p**p d**k

get a life *****!

Answer 3

way to confusing.. sorry

Answer 4

You shouldn't have to choose sides...explain to them that you are not going to choose sides and that if they have a problem with that then they really aren't 'friends' anyway.  Honestly, if they're gonna stop being your friend over that then they don't deserve to be your 'friend' because all you did was tell the truth. You weren't gossiping or anything like that you just told it how it was and if anyone's gonna hold that against you then don't even waste your time on them...life's too short and you don't need to waste your time worrying about keeping bad friends. "The only people you need in your life are the ones that need you in theirs"

Answer 5

You and all your friends get together and talk it all out. and tell them how you fell about this.

Answer 6

Tell r that s dose not like v and tell v to so that it is off your back and every thing is back to normal

Answer 7

I think you mixed some of the letters maybe? But, at any rate, be upfront and honest with them. Honesty truly is the best policy when it comes to healthy relationships- romantic or platonic. Tell both friends, "Look. I understand that you are frustrated with this situation and that I am partly to blame. But I want you to know that I like both friends and don't feel like I should choose. I value you as a friend and would be upset if you ever left my life. I hope that you understand that I want to be friends with you and *fill in the blank*. I know you guys don't like each other very much, but if you value our friendship as much as I do, you can learn to stay my friend even though I like someone you don't." Also, I'm glad you learned to keep your mouth shut unless it is life or death to tell someone gossip! It will often lead to tangled webs like this in the future.

Answer 8

Some advice- honesty is the best policy  

Answer 9

idk just ignore it will go away.