Friend trouble any advice????

Question

okay my best friend is always so sefish and doesnt like to share anything with me but yet she gets mad at me if i dont share with her. she is really confusing!! help

Answer 1

I would tell her how I feel. If you don't feel comfy with person-to-person confrontation, email or text her.

Answer 2

You have to sit her down and say something. If that is too hard than you can IM her or right her a note. If she gets really mad at you and makes a big scene she obviously isnt a good friend so then u can just get some new friendss.

Answer 3

tell her off, if she's your best friend she should be treating people how she wants to be treated

Answer 4

Tell her straight up how you feel

Don't be scared

If she gets mad when you tell her then shes not really a good friend, if she was she'd understand what you mean

Answer 5

My girlfriend has a friend like that, she's a nice girl in general but she does things like that. she doesn't tell her anything but wants her to tell her everything.

not sure how to deal with it, my suggestion is just to confront her and explain your self and how you feel about it. if she's a good friend she'll understand and will work on it.

hope it works out.

Answer 6

my advice may not be the best but i thought id try and help. ask her why she gets mad that you dont share with her but she doesnt have to share with you. and if she still wont say anything or keeps getting upset then she really isnt your friend

Answer 7

if she dosent share with you, why should you share with her?

you shouldnt have a selfish firend

they bring out the worst in you.

you should talk to her about it.

Answer 8

i think you should tell her how you feel and if that does not work you'll have to find a new friend.

Answer 9

You might need to call an friend Conference and Take some time and not be friends.... I have a friend just like her... And you get mad at her that will make her realize....

Hope that helps  

Answer 10

Tell her straight up how you feel. Don't beat around the bush. If she is your friend she can take it.

Answer 11

Oh tell me about it.. My friends are the same. I always tell them that they ill start when they dooo!

Answer 12

Tell her. good luck x

Answer 13

Tell her you'll share with her if she shares with you and keep on telling her that then she'll get used to it.

Trade something for a few days.

Answer 14

I have a friend just like that!

Answer 15

since shes ur bff mayb u cood tell her nicely but if u dont wanna do that wen u dont want to share with her tell her this is how i feel all the time wen u dont wanna share with me and then keep going on and tell her how u feel about it and mayb she will start sharing with u mor

Answer 16

tell her about herself, if she cant understand, and change then she doesnt deserve to be your bestfriend.

Answer 17

Just calmly tell her that she never shares anything with you, so you're not going to share anything with her, don't say it in an angry voice though, or you might end up in a fight. hope I could help!

Answer 18

Tell her that if she doesnt share her stuff with you,then you wont share your stuff with her.dont be afraid to stand up to her.....she just being a ***** ignore it and tell her to  get over herself :)

Answer 19

Do you call her on it? Remind her that she always wants you to share with her but that she won't share with you. If she's still not willing to change her selfish ways then dump her and find new friends.

Answer 20

Explain to her how you Feel.

Answer 21

bite her.