Friend troubles, really lost at this point?

Question

Well I've got this friend, we'll call her Sarah, and I was her best friend all summer, we were basically in constant contact. Her other best friend, the only one that seemed to come before me was supposed to be moving. But now school's starting and we had registration and the other friend was there. Apparently she's not moving. I'll give her a name, uh, Nancy. Well Nancy obviously doesn't like me very much. Nancy and Sarah spend all their time together now. And I barley ever talk to Sarah anymore, the reason being that she's with Nancy. Though when she does call me she's of course with Sarah and ignores me and talks to her.

She wasn't a very good friend to begin with, she was always extremely complicated and I can't stand the way she treats people, the guy I like in general, but she was almost my only friend at school.

I'm coming to find that nobody like me is really at my school. I'm starting high school this year and I don't know what to do from here.

Shoudl I keep giving her more chances, or should I try really hard to make new friends and move on?

The only problem with moving on is that I don't know if I'll be able to.

And I really don't want to go through high school as a loner.

thanks in advance.!

Answer 1

You are only just beginning High School and have some anxieties about it.  Everyone who is going to Hight School for the first time is going through exactly the same thing.  Give yourself time to get used to the new routines, and new friends will come into your life.  Good luck, Sweety!

Answer 2

I know it is tough but you need to move on with your life and make some new friends. Some people that are truly your friends, This girl is obviously a user, and you do not need or deserve that, You will do ok just be yourself talk to people maybe join some social clubs at school and you will probably surprise yourself with all the new friends that you have and will soon forget this one, Don't be surprised if she in turn wants to be best buddies with you again. However, move cautiously. Hurt me once shame on you but hurt me twice shame on me.  

Answer 3

Your at an age when a few months makes a big difference.  Don't try hard to keep her friendship.  If it happens, fine.  See what activities you can join in at school and maybe make some new friends.

In a few weeks you'll probably wonder why you felt this way.  I've yet to meet an uncomplicated girl [except for really thick ones ;)] and girls your age think the changes are in your friends only.  I wonder how complex she thinks you are?

Just chill a little, she still phones you.  

Answer 4

its one of the situation whr u cnt do anythng. wat i hve learnt from life is dat we should never judge a person  coz if we judge then we have no time to love them. i knw its difficult coz u r feeling bad rt nw. bt wat i suggest u is nt to think whether to give ur fren a chance or nt.dats nt wat frenship is. if u r realy a good fren of her then try using this. ok u said they two r always togethr rite so wen sarah wants to join u wit them and f u hv no choice bt 2b with them then its time for u not to talk n just listen. there r lots of time in life wen nt sayin a wrd is the rite way to comunicate.i knw u wud want to talk2sarah bt try2control im sure it helps.it wil wrk best if u r very talkativ gal. intialy they wont mind bt if  u cn continue for a long time may b a week then if this gal sarah realy takes u as best fren then she wud start asking u wat happnd? y u nt talking lately?? or things like that which show she realy cares. im sure u wil get ur answer if dat happens bt if it doesnt then try to walk on the fates path dnt search for frens let then find u coz wen u search and dnt find it it realy gna hurt alot. since u hv been best frens im sure she gna show her concerns. hope dis wks coz it works with me. best of luck.