Friend troubles.. please helpp.?

Question

ok so i have this 'friend' and shes SO fake. shes always talking **** about me and telling people things that arent true. she told this kid alex that i had s*x with a guy and he told everyone else and i was humiliated. were always in a fight and she always complains about herself. i love her to death but im really sick of her. should i call her out?? or should i still be her friend??

Answer 1

Sorry to tell you this, but this girl is not your friend, you may love her but she doesn't love you back,if she did she woudn't do this,if she cared for you she would wish now harm upon you an she's doing the contrary.maybe its time for you to look for other friends who are loyal to you and won't backstab you like she id oing right now!i wish you the best of luck with this.

Answer 2

then why is she ur friend? she's prolly jealous of u that u had s*x and she is still a virgin? btw, is ur friend hot? cause rite now all i've been doing is kissing those same fugly girls over and over again.

Answer 3

first i thinkk she needs a taste of her own medicine, next time she says something, say that they must have misunderstood her, because if you can recall shes the one that.....or just say something true about her, and if she asks, tell her that your sick of her c**p, and that you wanted to make her feel a bit of what you feel all the time because of her, and then tell her that the only thing is that you dont lie to your about your friends, unlike someone else you know.

or.......you can call her out in private and if she does it again tell everyone a huge secret about her. cause that is c**p, its not hard not to lie and make up **** about your friends and put them down while your doing it.

p.s. she also might just feel jealous of you...does she have a guy friend or boyfriend?..maybe he said something about you and she said something to him to make him not like you and now its all over the place.. i dunno. call her out. its whats best. maybe shell shut her trap. and if she doesnt than you dont need her anyways shes just a waste of time then.  gluck. hope i helped.

Answer 4

With "friends" like that who needs enemies!?? I mean really!

She is not your friend... she just uses you to make herself feel better about what an "ugly" person she is! Time to move on and get some real friends! Just tell her.." you know what your not my friend so stop faking it and just leave me alone"

Answer 5

call her out well i dont no if she talks **** about u then shes not really a friend tell u the truth if my friend were 2 talk **** bout me i would kik her ***

Answer 6

Call her out.  Then find other friends.

Answer 7

it sound lik ur only her friend because u feel lik u have to be her friend, but u dont. people who be talkin shizz are NOT your friend, no matter what they have done for you in the past. telling people your secrets/starting rumours about you [if the s*x thing was tru or not]? are you serious? come on! i wouldnt even bother saying anything to her, i would juss go find myself some real people, who you can trust. if "shes SO fake" then ur smart enough to do something about it. if u guys r always arguin thats stress you dont need. && shes always complaining about herself? ha. she talks shizz aout people cuz shes just jealous and knows other people are better than her. she could be jealous of you too. call her out. DONT be her friend. good luck!

Answer 8

what no1 should be treated like that !! dont be her friend and tell her y !!

Answer 9

why u still her friend people like that i like to give a good beat down

Answer 10

Don't call her out, that's just stooping down to her sleazy level. Just, cut connections with her; don't talk to her, text her, IM her, etc. If she asks why, you just say 'Because, I don't want someone who I call a friend spreading nasty rumors about me, just for their own pleasure.'

Answer 11

You can call her out and still be her friend.....

Maybe she doesn't realize...?

Answer 12

do the same thing back 2 her

or dump her as a friend

Answer 13

"i love her to death but im really sick of her."

Then tell her that and why.  If she won't talk about it rationally and calmly with you then she's no friend and you should move on.