Friend with benefits?

Question

I have a friend ive been seeing for 2 yrs and i asked him for $40 he said he didn't have it so i told him i didn't want to be bother with him if he could not give me $40 was wrong?

Answer 1

Maybe he didn't have the 40 dollars at the time. I think you were really harsh.  

Answer 2

not if this is where you are in your life. good luck

Answer 3

Material meanings in spiritual and religion life have no meaning!

I could even live my life without money, by just praying!

That's true even if ya don't believe in me!

God Bless You!

Answer 4

yes u was wrong. It seems like you're only his friend because of money.

be an independent woman in society and stop depending on men for money!!

Answer 5

yes you was and are wrong

Answer 6

what you did was used him, and when he wasn't able to give you what you wanted you dropped him. you seriously need to review your priorities... you'll never keep friends if you keep on that path.

Answer 7

What? Your friend should be the one not bothering with you. You sound like a very shallow person if that's what really happened.

1. He may not of actually had 40

2. Even if he did, hes not obliged to give it to you. Hes got his own money, go get your own.

3. Alot of people have a no lend to friends policy because it can cause so many issues.

4. To end a friendship over something so ridiculous is beyond me. Grow up!

Answer 8

Yes. You don't stop being friends with because they have nothing to offer you. Were you just being his friend b/c of what he could give you, or b/c you actually liked him? In my opinion, you aren't being a real friend.

Answer 9

Did you want to borrow it, or did you want him to just give it to you?

seems a bit cheeky to me, to just demand money from a friend.  

Answer 10

yeah you were wrong. he doesnt have to give you anything...when you ask someone for money, they can choose whether or not to give it to you. in this case, he didnt even have the money so you are being completely unreasonable.

Answer 11

Yes it sounds like you want him to pay for the time you are spending together and that'ss just not right what it the same thing happend to you

Answer 12

yes, you should not be like that...

you dont want to be friends if you cant take advantage...?

That seems a little cold hearted...

Answer 13

thats mean. why do you need 40$ from him anyway! you shouldnt use a friend for money.

Answer 14

If you are really friend then you should except the differences and some "no"s.

Now you can be sure that when he except your requests he really does. Now you can consider his views to be more near to reality. that what he say is what he thinks.

The friend who say "yes" to all of your requests is not a good one.

Answer 15

get a job!!!