Friends help. what should i do?

Question

ok so this girl (who used to be my BEST friend) and she knew i liked this guy for three years so she got his number out of my phone and started talking to him. she went to a diff school than me. so they liked each other and i asked her numerous times to stop. one of my other friends stoped right away she said"no matter what u say im not gonna stop so stop asking me"so then he said he wanted her to be alone with her and asked her to come to his house. she said she wa gonna. i told her i was never talking to her again. she asked me not to be mad i said im not mad im done. goodbye. so now my other really good friend wants to go out with her. im just having problems wot her and i have to see her 4 times a week. she kept talking to me and i was walking away (this was at gymnastics practice) and she one time told me to stop talking about it. i turned around and yelled i said nothing i walked away now shut up. (the coach was right there it was really funny) what should i do? and have i been doing the right thin?

Answer 1

Well I think that if she is hanging out with your lover that she id doing it just to bug you. so yea be mad at her. But if she trys to apoligize sincerely I wopuld forgive her. But forgiving doesnt mean you still have to be her best friend!

Answer 2

Ditch her, find other friends.

She isn't worth it.  

Answer 3

once upon a time, i was in the same situation. only i was the other girl. i was talking to this guy my friend had feelings for even though it probably wasn't the right thing to do. i really really really liked him and he liked me, not her.

so me and him started dating. she got so mad and we didnt talk for months. now we are friends again, actually tighter than ever because she didnt let a boy come between us. now if this girl likes this boy, let her have him. why hold her back? i agree she isnt being a good friend here, but if your holding her back and being snapping with her over a boy, what kind of friend are you to her?

Answer 4

.yer - defo...?

Answer 5

Honestly, if you didn't make a move with this guy (3 years?) she probably figured it didn't seem like a BIG deal to go out with him. If your other friend wants to go out with her than that's his choice. Just keep your cool or you will look like that bad guy in this ordeal.

Answer 6

i think your confusing funny with childish... your obviously really young, at your age guys are not worth losing a friend over. maybe quit the act you got going on, its immature, talk to her.

Answer 7

Well it’s never ok to hold grudges, they totally age you quicker!! But if I were you I would have done the same thing! If she were your real friend she would have picked you over that boy.  If you really want to get back at her act like nothing happened, I know it sounds bad but if you pretend you don’t care anymore and if you still ignore her it’ll annoy her even more!! That’s what I do! Just remember forgive but never forget!! Hope that helps!  

Answer 8

i think you are doing the right thing,i don't think boys should come between friends. i think that you should just leave them both (your friend and the boy) alone for now...or just not talk to the boy(even if you like him alot.) he caused you and your best friend to fight and no boy is worth that.

i would do the same exact thing though...id feel like my best friend was betraying me in some way

Answer 9

Yeah. I would just try to keep not being friends with her cuz she sure isn't a real friend.