Friends mom telling me I couldn't talk to him anymore...?

Question

My best guy friends mom told me that i couldn't talk to him anymore... I think that that's just simply retarded... She shoodn't get to tell me what i can and cannot do. The reason WE can't talk anymore is because me and him exchanged some videos and pictures and stories... He is bi but his mom didnt know... I was his ticket kinda to the "outside" world, if u know what i mean. Idk if she knows now, and i dont know if he blamed the whole thing on me!!! I dont think that he is that kind of person, but in trouble people show their true selves....Anyways, I haven't talked to him since like 7 last night and im really pissed! I don't know whats REALLY going on. I'm scared to text him cuz i dont know if she has his fone....what shood i do?

Answer 1

When my boyfirend's step mom actually had me arrested for a crime I didn't do, I started to realize that not everything comes easy in love.

Do what your heart says, no matter what.

Answer 2

She's just mad because her son might be bi or g*y and she doesnt want you encouraging it.   Some people are just so homophobic.  If you guys were exchanging p**n then I could see why she doesnt want him to talk to you.   Nobody wants there kids looking at p**n or hanging out with other bad kids.

Answer 3

That is a problem he has to sort out with his mother before you get involved. I would say that you should find some way to let him know that you are there for him whenever he needs you (pass the message on through a mutual friend, perhaps) and then let him work things out with his mother. If you try to contact him under her nose it might make the situation worse for him. Good luck!

Answer 4

well hun, i know its hurtful but its not his mom telling you what you can or cant do, its her making a decision as to whats best for her son. you dont have to like her decision but you have to abide by it. maybe you can talk (respectfully) to her and ask her why. tell her you dont mean to make things difficult but it would be easier to leave him alone if you could understand why. maybe its just the age difference that worries her. 3 years isnt that big a deal, but it is when you are 13 and he is 16. it hurts to lose a friend without knowing why. try to be brave and work up the nerve. maybe go to their house. that why she cant hang up on you. have you told your mom? maybe if you get your mom on your side, she can go with you or talk to his mom for you. tell her your hurting. a good mom will take you seriously and do what she can to make you feel better. i would do that for my son if he was hurting good luck

Answer 5

When he turns 18, mom will lose most of her control, unless he gets himself emancipated.

Sorry, that's just the way it is.

To get a restraining order, she'd have to show a judge you are somehow a threat to him,...... unlikely (unless you are a threat, and haven't told us.....).

Luck

Answer 6

Your both minors and should be enjoying life instead of delving into the seamy side of life. Of course his Mom is mad at you and doesn't want you around, you are considered a bad companion.  Birds of a feather flock together and she wants to protect him from that lifestyle until he is an adult and can make a more mature decision.

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