Friends that stay upo till 3 am?

Question

i have a lot of friends but only 2 i can trust. and they come over and we usually have sleepovers we play mario cart(FUN) but when me and 1 girl get tired the other one stays up till like 6. what do i do. we tell her to go to sleep..but she doesn't. then when we wake up she stays asleep until around....1 in the afternoon! We are in middle school..13

Answer 1

omg lol

invite the other friend over in front of her and when she asks why u didnt invite her tell her its cuz she nvr sleeps and u get annoyed cuz all 3 of yall cant have fun cuz she sleep.

Answer 2

well you can't make her go to bed. haha i kinda have the same problem but im the one that stays up late but then i wake up at the same time as my other friends. either get her really tired like do crrazy fun stuff and she will get tired. or just wake her up earlyy.  

Answer 3

That's normal! I'm thirteen (my friends are thirteen and fourteen) I stay up until three every morning and I'm up about twelve.

At sleepovers we either have all nighters or go to bed at eight or nine in the morning and get up at twelve or one.

It's the fun part about being a teenager!

Anyway if it's really bothering you tell her about it she'll understand but in fairness (is that even a word LOL) one weekend you try her lifestyle (staying up until six then getting up about one). She should change after that.

About the attacking bit, tell her that's wrong and there's no need. If she's crabby because of not enough sleep she needs to go to bed at least by two or three in the morning.

Hope I helped!

Answer 4

Tell her your parents will get mad if they know that you guys are still awake. Tell her that if you get caught your mom won't let you have sleepovers anymore.

I used to have a friend like that. It was so annoying. I stopped inviting her over.  

Answer 5

tell her if she is going to sleep the whole afternoon when she is at your house she doesnt need to come over..

i stay up way later then that at my one frenns house a few weeks ago but i just stayed up with her brother (14) and listened to music till like 6:30 then we both fell asleep on the floor.

but like i dont think that staying up till 3 is like a crazy time to stay up at all.

Answer 6

tell your mom this and have her come in there around 12 or 1 and tell you girls to go to bed. Hopefully she will listen to your mom & if she doesnt then dont invite her over anymore.  

Answer 7

i saty up till 4 to 5 am lol dsnt affect me lmao U can go to bed anytime u want when u get to my age .. facinating isnt it

Answer 8

maybe you shouldnt invite her to sleepovers and if she asks why you should tell her that you dont appriciate her always doing the opposite of what you ask and being so rude when you just want her to get up.

Answer 9

well tell her before you invite her that she should go to sleep when you do because it ruins the next day for the rest of you.

then if she says ok, proceed to invite her, if t=she says no then don't invite her.

maybe alternativly you could make a comprimise with her and stay up a little later then usual, or you could invite another girl

Answer 10

uhh, let her sleep when and how long she wants unless shes bothering you guys. and its perfectly okay for 13 year olds to stay up, but only during summer or else she wouldnt even get sleep haha.

Answer 11

You cant make someone go to bed. If she is doing that at your house that must mean her parents are letting stay up until 6 and then sleeping late because her body is used to staying up that late she cant go to sleep.

Answer 12

It sounds to me like your friend has a sleep disorder which needs treatment- her staying up like this is NOT NORMAL or healthy. Have you ever told her parents about what happens when she stays at your house?? I am sure her parents don't allow her to act like that at home- because they know it isn't healthy or normal. I would speak up, and tell them what's been going on, next time your friend wants to come over. You need your sleep, sweetie- and your friend's bizzare behavior is keeping you from getting it.

Why do you have your brother throw your friend in the pool? Don't you know that this is DANGEROUS, especially if your friend is still asleep ( it's quite possible for people to eat, talk, walk, and even drive while asleep, and not know it) when he does it? She could DROWN from this- but apparently, that has never entered any of your heads. I don't blame her for attacking your brother for this- I would likely do the same thing, if someone did this to me every time I went over to your house for a sleepover. You are not doing her any favors by trying to force her to wake up once she finally does go to sleep. It's not fair to her, and it can be cruel. That's why she attacks and chases you.

I'd speak to your friend's parents, and tell them what's going on. She needs to see a doctor and get some help for her sleep disorder, or she is really going to get sick. Lack of sleep causes all kinds of health problems.  

Answer 13

wow

Answer 14

same thing happened with me and my buddie. its just happened a few nights ago. we were playing grand theft auto at my house. (he brought the xbox and game over cuz i dont have one) and we stayed up till 12 then im like dude lets go to bed and hes like no s***w you (in a friend kinda way haha he ment it to be funny) so we stayed up for another hour then im like forget this im going to bed so i went to bed and i woke up at 5 and he was still playing the game, then he went to bad at 7 inthe morning and didnt wake up till 3 in the afternoon. so i basicly didnt hang out with him at all. so i just told him that my mom hurd us going to be real late and said i cant have anyone over if i go to bed that late again and we went to bed at 12 and it was fine haha so just tell her ur mom said u gotta go to bed at like at least 12 or somethin