Friends who have problems who make me sound like i have a perfect life?

Question

all my friends are involved with drugs because of their "painful life"

and they do

except i don't

i love my family

i love my life

but theres this strange feeling that i want my life to be a s***w up

im not sure whether its to fit in or what

i find they baby me

alot

becuase im a virgin

i can be happy with out drugs

and so they refuse to tell me about whats happening because i 'cant handle it' or most often 'too inocent'

how can i make this stop without changing who i am in the making?

Answer 1

You need to find new friends.

Trust me, you are going to regret it if your life sucks and you start doing drugs and/or having s*x with random guys.

Answer 2

I got some friends like this but its watever i chose what i chose and if i wanted i could be like them and even worse considering the way my mom and dad are. But i jus ignore and dumb comments they make about me not doing drugs and being a good kid and watever becuase in the long run ill go off to college and who knows whats going to happen to them but once im in college ill have new friends that are somewhat more like me.

Answer 3

You are fine. They just want everyones' pity. I will tell you, you don't want the kind of attention they want. I would want to be noticed for my achievements, not my failures.

Answer 4

Its very simple. DON'T BE FRIENDS WITH THEM. They will make u suffer da misery dat they ar suffering. They want u 2 feel da same thing they're feeling. The painful life they had will be transferred 2 u