Friends with benefits help??

Question

okay me and this guy have been friends with benefits for about a month and a 1/2 now..i really started to fall for him recently and don't know what to do..when im with this guy i get butterflies and have this huge smile on my face...i wanna become more than hooking up buddies with this boy but im scared if im to blunt he'll freak out(you know how some guys can be)..but i know he likes me i just wanna take it to the next step please someone help?

Answer 1

Star4 you are not alone with this predicament.  Many folks start of on this Utopian trip where everything will be wonderful and nobody will get hurt as it will be strictly a sexual relationship.  But alas eventually emotions and feelings like you are currently experiencing sneak in and before you know it the FWB relationship often turns into a real relationship without either party even knowing.  Often envy, jealousy and some form of ownership accompany this type of relationship and it can kill it.  My best advice is to have a mature and open minded conversation with this young man. Tell him exactly how you are feeling and what emotions you are experiencing.  Who the h**l knows he may be having the same sort of feelings and afraid to direct the conversation towards you.   Communication is number one in all relationships, and is probably even more important in FWB type of relationships. Best of luck.

Answer 2

then do so!

but dont rush into things