Friends with benefits..........?

Question

Is it possible to be just friends with benefits with him?

I have been seeing this guy for few weeks and i they is just any chemistry between us.He always tells me that he really likes me but i don't enjoy doing social things with him since i find him boring.

So i was thinking to tell him that i am not looking for a boyfriend right now but i am willing to be his F*u*c*k buddy.I don't know if he is going to be okay with it since he has been chasing for a while to win me over.So i am just going to come clean about it and let him know before we do anything. He always tells me that i meant a lot to him and i am s**y.

So do you think it would work since he is already obsessed with me?

Answer 1

If you think he is boring why would you start to have s*x with him. I have a guy who is interested (or obsessed) with me at the moment and the amount of times I have told him I am not interested in ANYTHING with him is unbeleivable. It would be foolish of me to lead him on by having s*x with him.

I dont think you should do it. Try and distance yourself from him until he gets the picture or until you start to like him more.

Answer 2

MOST guys chase women to win them over enough that s*x becomes a possibility.

Your saying you want s*x without the hassles of a relationship, (what you're describing is heaven for most guys).

So you're aware, there are some moral ramifications that you seem to be ignoring, (seems like just because you want to get laid), s*x is more than just physical exercise, (just as we are more than just physical beings)..........but to answer your question, unless he's VERY MUCH the exception, he'll be thrilled.

I can't for the life of me see how you've come, (sorry, play on words), to the conclusion that you want to be FWB..........(are you aware you'll be viewed as just a s*x object by him and his friends?)

Not a person, a thing.  If you're sure that's what you want.................

Luck

Answer 3

I think friends with benefits are pretty much for people who can't control themselves and have no morals. :)

Answer 4

I have had a friend with benefits for 9 years if either is an a relationship we are friends if not we have benifits. In my case he is my best friend but are to different to fall in love. Be honest about your intentions, who knows maybe you will fall in love.