Friends with benefits.?

Question

I accept that he will sleep with other people and even though I DO NOT want a relationship, I know I’d get jealous when he is with other people. Is that normal? Like, do you 100% not care at all if your ‘friend with benefits’ is intimate with other people as well as you?

Answer 1

The choice is yours.

Think and do it.

Answer 2

Respect yourself and be careful with the "friends with benefits" thing, because it seems like you have feelings here and if you are going that route, then "friends with benefits", isn't for you.  It is your body to do with as you wish, but only do to your body what "you" "want" "to" "do", spreading it around with "friends with benefits", can have other names as well.   Be careful there are so many things wrong with this picture until I can see where you might think there is some right in it.   God Bless.

Answer 3

arh, dont do it!

I've been through it four times, not once works out.

If you know your going to get jealous DON'T DO IT

for Chris.t sake, if you know that your both or at least he is going

to be messing around with other people and you know you will get jealous

when he does, don't.

your just going to get hurt even if you don't want a relationship

don't bother putting yourself through that, seriously.

Friends with benefits in 99% of all times I've been through and seen

with others, one ends up wanting more or just getting jealous

and then they are no longer friends and no longer get benefits.

Don't go there unless you really don't give a S**t and don't have feelings for them.

Answer 4

I am in the same situation for nearly two years I have had a friend with benefits and it has been great for the both of us,  except he likes a different variety of women and yes if I allow myself to think about it, it does make me jealous but I choose to know that I decided to continue with him for my own reasons and like anyone else I cannot control what others do.  Now I am not saying that it has all been peaches and cream I have walked away from him on three different occasions because he could not give me what I needed but for some reason he finds a way back,  the last time recently I even put myself on a personal site which for some unexplainable reason he found me on it and realized that he may lose me for good.  So if this is really starting to bother you then maybe it is time to cut out the s*x and just be friends.  s*x and love or feelings of love are so closely linked.  Good luck in whatever you decide and remember there are plenty of men out there the choices are endless