Friendship Problems! Don't know where I belong?!?

Question

This year I'm going into middle school (6th grade) and I don't know what friends I belong to!  I have a lot of friends!  I have one best friend who I've known for eight years, but she's a grade younger so she's not a problem.  But my problem is that I know that a lot of friendships die in middle school and you go down to one great group of friends who are your REAL friends.  Well this is really weird, but at the beginning of 5th grade and before that, I was kind of a dork, not a dork, but I still thought that I don't care what people think of me, and I was kind of a tomboy.  In the middle of the year, I don't know how, but I started to be friends with the popular girls, and they weren't what they thought.  They weren't s****. and they were nice!  I'm not friends with the dorks anymore, but I'm friends with other girls (not the popular girls) and they are nice girls, but they are kind of all seperate girls.  Like they are not one group. The popular girls are kind of one group, but one girl in there I don't like. She's the girl who thinks she belongs in the group, but she doesn't. She called me a b**ch because she thinks I'm "stealing another girl from her!" I don't know where I belong! Please help!

Answer 1

i juss got out of that grade so here it goes u need to be ur self if that girl likes u beter then the other girl let the other girl keep haten dont even waste ur time on petty stuff like haters and i tried to be friends with all different groups dont just pick one have a verity make sure the person u tell all ur secrets to u deff can trust cuz ppl will be twofaced and back stab u so u always have to watch ur back keep a couple of ppl to have ur back and make sure u have theres u will go through many heart breaks andppl putin u down but look past that u have a life so live it to the fullest have fun

Answer 2

ur story is almost like the movie of "mean girl" but nvrmd! anyway, if she relly juz said u r a *********., who cares? juz mix with the ppl that u like n dont care bout wat the others will think or say! maybe she juz saying that so u will leave the girl that she thought u "stole" from her! then dont leave! the more she says, the more u hang around wit that girl! next time when she says sumthing bad bout u again(like *********.), juz strike her back wit ur words! like "at least im better than u, s.l.u.t.! (kind of nasty word, huh?)

im agree wit u! when i moved to high school, my closest friends turn into my farest friends even when we met up, we were like strangers n i didnt talk to them bout 4 years but im still thinking n i dont noe whether these friends r worth to be missed as if they dont miss me!  

Answer 3

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Answer 4

hang around with the people you enjoy being with, groups are for insecure people;like the girl you mentioned she sounds very very sad.

Answer 5

i think u should just be friends with whoever u think is nice and fun to hang out with. Like for me, I hang out with all different kinds of people that i think are good friends :D You don't have to stick all to one group!

Answer 6

I know its hard but try to relax.  This is the time to keep your options open.  Don't worry about being in a group be a true friend to your friends.  Fighting over friendships is silly but it's done all the time.  If you keep your cool you may find you have friends in all groups.

There are some people( I almost said girls but I've had a guy like this) who just seem to come out of nowhere and dislike you immediately with no reason for it.  They suddenly decide that it is their life's mission to put you down and make you miserable.

It's best just to ignore them and let the people around you see what is going on.  Your true friends will step up.  

Answer 7

ok you ned to calm down. because you sound very stupid right now.  just have them all be your friends and dicover who are your true friends.  don't think of them in seperate group think of them all as your friends.