Friendship problem!?

Question

ok, so my best friend has been really mean and annoying lately, and i'm tired of it. so every time she calls with plans or wants to hang out, i have to make up an excuse, which isn't that great cause i'm a really bad liar. is there any way i can get her to understand that i'm fed up with her? i'm sick of venting about it to other friends. and no, i am NOT going to tell her that i hate her. Thanks!!

Answer 1

just tell he straight up what the issue is, that she is annoying and mean. If you dont tell her she cant fix the problem. Maybe she will tell you why she has been mean/annoying. Or she will probably be pissed but at least you wont have to deal with it.

Answer 2

There's no need to tell her you hate her,just explain to her that you are fed up with the way she is acting.Possibly someone at home or elsewhere is acting this way to her & by her acting out the same way is the only way she can vent her frustration.Ask her why she is acting this way as it is jeopardising your friendship.

Answer 3

slow dowwwwwn.

stop being a pus and making up excuses. bluntly tell her that you dont like the way shes acting. if you've not been hanging out with her like usual then shes not stupid.. she knows something is wrong. dont let yalls friendship end because of her being a B. tell her that you dont think shes acting right and see where that goes. be mature.

Answer 4

You need to tell your best friend that you don't like the way you've been acting lately. And that you want a break from hanging out with her. If you don't like the idea then tell her you are very busy and you may not be able to hang out a lot.

XD

Answer 5

you know.

im ssorry to say this but you have to tell her the truth.

tell her that she has to calm down a little, its not her fault shes annoying.

she doesnt know.

she will probably take it harsh..but she will forget about it and move on..  

Answer 6

When she calls you next just tell her how you feel. If she was your real friend she would recognize what she is doing wrong that is upsets you and change the way she acts so that you can stay friends.

Answer 7

just ignore the calls and messages and she will get the idea

Answer 8

Think about why you’re angry. Then think about all the great things you love about your friend. Is the first thing really more important than all the second things? It’s normal to disagree sometimes – it doesn’t mean you can’t be friends. Wait till you’ve cooled down and then explain why you're feeling fed up with her. If she's a good enough friend, she'll listen and accept her mistakes.

Answer 9

well what you really should do is talk to her. but since you aren't going to do that, i'd suggest trying to keep ignoring her. that's all you can do without saying you hate her or being nice to her.

Answer 10

Have you tried talking to her about the way you are feeling?

Try talking to her would be my advice.

Go directly to the person who is being mean.

Answer 11

Do you hate her? your not much of a friend if you can't talk to her but talk about her to other people. I wouldn't want you for a friend thats for sure.

Answer 12

let her down softly. dont tell her you dont want to be her friend but that you dont want to hang as much. that you need your space and she can be annoying sometimes and that you just need a break from being friends. if you tell her that you dont want to be friends you may decide later once you have a had a break that you want to be friends again, maybe you wont but i would not risk loosing a friendship that you may or may not want to be in later  

Answer 13

just talk to her and ask her why she is being mean and if she says "no im not" then just explain what shes done thats mean...

well hope this helps! x3

Answer 14

I know friendships may come to rough patches, but just think about how it would be if you were in her shoes.  If she was acting weird and not hanging out with you, that would suck.  It would best if you just sat her down, got some coffee or whatever and just talked.  Don't tell her you hate her, just tell her why you're upset and what she did.  Let her listen to you and then you need to listen to her.  You never know you could resolve this argument or she could see it your way and you two could just go your separate ways.

Answer 15

well if you still want to be friends you could just try and tell her the truth be honest with her or you could try and hang out with her again and do a load of things you use to do

Answer 16

tell her to leave you alone cause your annoyed by her persisting attitude

Answer 17

well the only way is to tell her.

i have the same problem

i told her right to her face.

that i am not taking any more **** from you.

that is really the only way

you cant just lie your way through things.

becuz shes gonna find out

and then when she does

shes gonna yell at you

and be all like

"why are you ignoring me?"

"you need to get a life"

blah blah blah

its tough

but u have to.

:(

Answer 18

show her this message??!

Answer 19

tell her she's annoying

Answer 20

Are u pmsing lol jk jk

Yeah u should tell her the truth no matter what because it will be better in the long run

Answer 21

let her know, in a nice way. dont text her or call her, talk to her.

Answer 22

1st you should not be talking to ur OTHER friends about her because she will hear about it sooner or later 2nd you should just talk to her and tell her y she is so aggravating and annoying and if she is being mean to you ask her y and if she still is the same way tell her you can't be her friend tell she changes her ways with you

Answer 23

Well if your not gonna tell her how to you expect it to be solved?

You can tell her nicely there's lots of ways to phrase things, so either that or just live with it

Answer 24

Tell her! Don't go around talking about her to all of your friends!