From your own life experience, how do you move on when you mess up?

Question

From your own life experience, how do you move on when you mess up?

Answer 1

s***w around with society.

Answer 2

There's a lot of sage advice out there. But as for me, well I'm not going to compare my situation with others folks senarios, cause my personal deamons maybe another person's day on the beach, anyhow I've come to the realisation that there was no real sense mopping on. I realised that my life didn't stop when the drama ended and perfect simply wasn't going to happen. So I got out of bed and decide that I mattered to me, because that is where you begin obviously. With that core thought, I decide to continue life accepting me and as they say the rest follows one day at a time.

Answer 3

Hold your head up high and think of the future, not the present.

Answer 4

what past had past, if i had done something very wrong, i would ask for forgiveness and try patching up every single mistake that i had made. for me, nothing's too late to restart again

Answer 5

just know what u did wrong and try to change it everione deserves a second chance

Answer 6

All I can say is at 38 years old, nothing has killed me yet. However, some of my mistakes felt like they might.  You really do grow stronger through pain.

Answer 7

Take a little down time, depending on how bad I messed up, maybe 3 days away from work, as that is usually how much I can take without dr. excuse. I have found that talking to good friends about it really helps you put things in perspective. Pray and ask God to help you. Then I tell myself "I know I'm not the only person who did this or went through this", I have no choice but to go on, I am only human. Things are not always what they seem to be at the time. I have learned over the years that unfortunate things that have happened to me were always stepping stones to bring me to where I am today.

Hang in there and I hope I helped if even a little.

Answer 8

if you mean in relationships, I would talk about it and discuss it and joke around about it. You cant take everything so seriously.

Answer 9

i am a drug addict and Ive been sober for almost three years and I'm in college and have turned my life around and just dust your self off and go on.

Answer 10

Failure is a given.

I try to learn from my failures and not repeat them.

I take responsibility, and I move on.

I'm only human, just as you are.

Answer 11

I try to act like nothing happened and move on.

Answer 12

Ammend what you can.  Then forgive yourself.  And try not to make the same mistake, again.

Answer 13

If it's nothing serious, you laugh it off if you can. If it is serious, take what you've learned and use it later. Everyone screws up now and again, you gotta take what you can. Lessons are the best thing to take.

Answer 14

Pick ur self up! U made a mess yes but...u cant go back and chang it! So if forgivness need to be there let it...talk it out if u can and move on! Laugh when u dont want to and smile when u feel like crying...cry yes..let it out yes! But dont let it over take u! Move on surround your self with happiness and forgive..ask for forgivness...admit u where worng! And thats all i can say!