Okay, so I thought I was bi, this guy asked me out. Blah, blah, blah, 8 months later - I let myself realize I was a L*****n and he told me he was g*y.
So, now we're the best of friends.
He has a MAJOR crush on this guy at school who he barely can stop talking/thinking about.
He has this girl who, when she comes over to talk to "us," ends up basically talking to just him, my presence barely awknowledged until I find it necesary to say something. They went romping about at a party once while he just left me hanging. He's a completely different person around her. Said he feels the same way about her as he did about me when he asked me out in the first place. (I also had a crush on this girl a long time before these things happened). She was being all flirty with him and he wasn't saying anything. I kept telling im to tell her he wasn't interested before he got too attached to her. This would save him pain, because she's known to be a bit homophobic.
Now, these two girls are after him. He asks my advice and I say, ride it out for a while, if they start making moves, tell them you're not interested, or tell them you're g*y. He won't do that. He'd rather go through all the drama, and end up hurting these girls and himself.
I know I'm a bit jealous. He says he's g*y, but then all these girls...not to mention he actually loved me at one point. I know that you can be g*y, and love the other gender, but this is kind of out there. I have no problem with him being with guys, but with girls, it's weird and sort of feels like he lied to me. I also know that he's really scared of coming out.
Help me, puhlease?
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