GIRLS!? AND GUYS IF U WOULD KNOW!?

Question

I have an x, and i have class, and lunch with him, he constantly is sitting next to me, and eating with me, and i thought i hated him, then i see him, and i have this instinct to be flirty...but i thought i didnt like him. When i was with him, i constantly was upset, or angry, and everything but i still liked him a lot, his personality changed as i got to know him, almost as if he knew that he didnt have to try cause he knew i was with him. We r broken up, but he is around me, he wants to give me rides home...and everything. Please please help me fill in the blanks.

why is he clingy?

what do i do?

go with him

or shut him down

like i dont know what to do...

elaborate as much as u can, i will give 10 points to the answer that has the most to help me.

i have people saying if the chance comes get back together with him, and then i have people saying its time to move on...

Answer 1

You just answered to your own question- you still like him and sometimes you are flirty. What do you really want to be? His friend or his ex who's giving him mixed signals? If you want to be his friend. Then have that serious talk with him. Tell him that if he does not treat you like a friend, you'll be cold to him. Friends are not clingy or need. They give space.

Answer 2

Tough question. Let him give you a ride home every now and then, when you hang out with him think about whether or not you like him, or whether you just want to flirt because you're bored and need a new bf. Be careful, though. The fact that he showed his true colours after a while could be a bad thing, especially if his true colours are ugly ones... you can try getting back together as a tester for a little while, take things slowly, and see if he's the right guy for you. if your not satisfied, chances are he's not the one. good luck :)

Answer 3

if you broke up with him he obviously still likes you but if he broke up with you he probably wants you back. if you dont like him then confront him and if you do then talk to him and say you like him :)