GIRLS! I need your opinions on a friend situation I am in!!!?

Question

Me and my very close friend got in a little squabble and haven't talken since...which has be fine with me because she treated me awfully and cancelled my invitation to her parents wedding...Since then she has ignored me because she had this boy to depend on and felt i was "un needed". Just today she has emailed me saying how depressed she is and doesn't think things will work out with this guy...

Hmmm not cool in my opinion...for her to just email me after she finds out this guy isn't gonna work out...With out even asking for forgiveness and acting like nothing happened ( so basically using me) ....So i do need to respond to this email but i don't want to be used...Opinions would be loved!!! thanx chickas

Answer 1

umm be like

"okay so you want to talk to me and get my advise... when you havent even ask for forgiveness. You got all mad at me over this one boy and your acting as if it never happen??"

or

do the exact thing she does to you back and find out how she lkes it..

Answer 2

Well, You need to explain to this friend it is not acceptable for her  to only come to you when she has a problem. Tell her she can be devoted to  you if she wants but not only when there is a situation that didn't go in her favor. If you still want to be friends with her explain that to her so she won't get too offended. Basically, just tell her that's  not what friends do.

Answer 3

if she just saysthat, tell her that she might not want to ask you because of your current emotions. wether or not you feel em.

but then, you can TRY to help her and maybe you guys can be friends again

Answer 4

tell her how you feel because she probably thinks your being just as bad

you both need to talk

having a gossip aboutt his fella might bring you back together

BUT dont let her pass the blame to you, you dont deserve it

good luck bbz

Answer 5

she doesnt sound like a very good friend. && you're right. she is using you.

if you don't care about being friends with her anymore...

maybe try talking to her about it.

tell her how you feel, and what you've been noticing.

it can't hurt. either she'll understand and change her ways... or not be your friend (which she isnt really right now)

it could help both of you out.

Answer 6

if you really truly want to be friends again (do you miss her?  does something happen and you think 'oh! i cant wait to tell her!' and then realize yall arent talking?) then you should be friends again.  otherwise, just ignore her email.

if you want to be friends, talk to her about what happened.  meet for coffee (so you will be in a neutral place) and just explain to her how you feel about that.  

from what i can tell, it sounds like she was trying to reach out to you in her email.  maybe she wants to meet and apologize in person?