(GIRLS ONLY) does it hurt 2 loose your virginity?

Question

omg i had 2 take s*x ed and they said that for women it can be a painful experience ,im not saying im gonna have s*x im only 15 but still the pain is just something i am not looking forward 2 O_O

Answer 1

According to a book I have,

50% of women experience SOME pain

20% say they have NO pain

30% experience SEVERE pain

Personally, I didn't feel any pain at all.  It was great.

Answer 2

My ex-ex girlfriend was a virgin when I met her. I just made sure I went really slow, got her wet (finger, oral, abit of lube) and only started going in a little at a time until it got more comfortable for her.

She said it hurt but in a good way.

Answer 3

Some girls do experience pain when the hymen breaks.  A little blood sometimes will be found as well.  Some girls don't experience any pain, and some girls have very bad pain.  It all depends on the girl, and the boy who is inserting.  Different things lead to dofferent reactions.

Answer 4

You can get a hymenectomy my wife had that (or so she says) or I suppose you could do it yourself where you can control things, I would think in a hot bathtub.

But if you do it tomorrow because you want more options for your period it's against the law for you to have s*x- and I don't mean like it was in the 1950s I mean there is a major offensive to criminalize teen s*x that has swept the idiots in office and not a day goes by we don't hear of a new case where a teen is placed on the s*x offenders list for having s*x with another teen, which quite frankly it's quicker to kill the kid then cripple him the rest of his.her life. http://hummingbunny.wordpress.com/2008/0...

Answer 5

You are too young and it sounds like you are being pressured in to s*x.   Stand up for yourself because your body belongs to you and to save yourself is a strong and good example.  You are in charge and you will be ready when you are ready for the right man later.  

Answer 6

It will probably be a little uncomfortable.  If you're a little anxious or nervous, causing you to be tense, that may make the pain a little worse.

If you're with someone that you truly have feelings for and are 100% comfortable with, you'll be more relaxed and the pain will likely be less.  Be sure to communicate with your partner how you feel or if you're in pain.

I've been married for 6 years, and there are still times when my husband wants to have s*x, but I'll be really tired or just not into it.  It's really uncomfortable because the lubrication and passion just isn't there.  Fortunately, I'll communicate this to him, and he totally understands.

Odds are, if you're ready to have s*x with someone, you've 'fooled around' with them before, and they may have already broken your hymen with their fingers.  This may also happen during foreplay.

Answer 7

yeah i guess for the first time, tips do it with some one that you have feelings with or even better if you both does care each other,. a bit lees pain i guess,.

Answer 8

uhm yeah

it hurts like h**l

i had to stop in the middle of it it hurt so bad

Answer 9

I cant really remember it was so long ago, im pretty sure it was uncomfortable, but not sore.