GIRLS ONLY...plz help me?

Question

I like a girl from work...

we talk a lot while working and joke around...(pretty much flirting)

I got her number and we have been texting...at least every other day

and we share alot about ourselves to each other.

we both are busy so we haven't been able to hang out...

a month ago i asked her if she would ever want to date (in fear of me waiting too long and her finding someone else). When she replied she said that she wasn't ready to be in a relationship but that i would make the perfect boyfriend, she then said that maybe we could when we both were ready and she loved knowing she had me as a trustworthy friend.

Since then, everything is the same as before... and i still like her

-does she like me, or is it it just a kind way of rejection?

-what should i do now???<---MAIN QUESTION

-do i have a chance?

Answer 1

i must say you should forget her.............

Answer 2

Yes, defiantly there is a possibility for a future date or even a relationship. In my opinion , since you guys both work together it would be difficult for her. In most cases its very hard to manage a relationship while working in the same place. Maybe that&#039;s what is holding her back. But, if your so into her give it time.She has already stated you&#039;d be the perfect boyfriend(major plus). When the time is right it will all fall into place for you(make sure youdon&#039;tt pressure her).Make it a point to let her know your interested in her (as you have been doing casually).Like invite her to lunch , or morning coffe. No matter what happens , getting her number was a major plus . So ,don&#039;t lose hope the holidays are approaching (they say relationships develope and that&#039;s the time to show your affection-* winks *) .

Good luck.

Answer 3

She just wants to make sure that you two are compatible.  Yes I think she likes you and now all you have to do is wait until the right time to ask her out again.  You will know when the time comes, she will probably tell you herself.

Answer 4

YES ITS NATURAL,DONT WORRY AT ALL.

Answer 5

If I was you I would just keep it on a friends level. Maybe something happend in a previous relationship that really hurt her and she is not ready for another one.

This is a rejection, but it may not last forever.

I think that if she does decide she wants a relationship your going to be one of the first people she seeks one with. But dont wait on it, keep your options open. Everything happens for a reason.

It could be worse, she could act totally strange towards you and have it be awkward when you guys talk... since its not like that, thats a sign that she does think your a nice guy and maybe you will have a chance at a later date.  

Answer 6

Matt, she is not attracted to you.  You are not her type and she just does not want to hurt your feelings.  I am sorry to be so forward.  

This is my honest opinion.

Don&#039;t waste your time on her, romantically.  Try to move along.  If and when you find someone she will then see that she really missed out on a wonderful man.

You DO NOT want to be in a relationship where one person has more/less feeling than the other.  It winds up a catastrophe and someone always gets hurt.

You seem like a precious man.  Love yourself enough to find someone who will reciprocate.  

Answer 7

It&#039;s her way of saying no and ensuring that you won&#039;t ask her again because you know she&#039;s &quot;not ready&quot; yet. Don&#039;t pressure her to date you; just go with the flow. She definitely wants you in her life, just not romantically, and the more you push the more you&#039;ll scare her away completely. Don&#039;t hold yourself back for her.