GIRLS...do you like to have the control in ur relationship or not...?

Question

GIRLS...do you like to have the control in ur relationship or not...?

Answer 1

I do like to have control but i'm not a dictator or anything. I let my boyfriend have control but it doesn't really matter to me. But i like to be controlled in a sexual situation. (not even just s*x, just kissing and stuff too)

Answer 2

Yeah and unfortunately that's why my last relationship failed and now I'm miserable...

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Answer 3

Yeah. I must have access to his bank account, phone, email, house etc.  

Answer 4

I don't. I always joke that "I wear the pants in this relationship". My bf can't read instructions at all so I am the handy man around the house. He just won't take control of a situation and is always asking me. I think sometimes a girl just needs a big strong man to make her feel safe and protected :)

Answer 5

I am a strong woman because life has made me that way.  I don't want to control a man but I have little patience for bull$hit.

Answer 6

a lil but i also like a guy who can take charge  

Answer 7

It should be equal.

That's hard.

But sometimes I like it when the guy has a little bit more control so he can keep me safe.

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Answer 8

Yes, but not too much :) I want to be the girl in the relationship! Most relationships where the girl is more in control that I've watched haven't worked out.

I like Sammi's answer :)

Answer 9

i like to have both of the people in control in the relationship so it dosnt fail im actullya girl my name isnt rly mike

Answer 10

im not a girl, but i think it should be mutual, which is often diffficult

Answer 11

i like it to be equalized... kinda but i  like the guy to have a little more controll but tahts just me :]

Answer 12

i agree with LR  

Answer 13

no i do'nt, and a lot of girls i know don't either, i mean a little bit of control is good obviously. but i personally like a guy that's willing to make decisions and take charge

Answer 14

i like equality.

Answer 15

d**n right I do. Now go get me some ice cream!

Answer 16

i like to be my man's queen,

but i like to be his slave to :)

peace

Answer 17

um i always have the control in my relationships

Answer 18

uhmm I'm not sure i don't like to wait for him but i don't like to let him wait for me either.. I guess sometimes is good sometimes is bad..  

Answer 19

NOT...